I'm kinda geeky, but I either predate or have outgrown some of the very classic geeky things. I still share the interests and hobbies, but not the worldview so much.
I'm a socialist in what I want the government to do, but I also have a near absolute belief in free speech and the value in people picking their terminology and beliefs without caring one bit about people feeling "marginalised" or offended. I think it's even healthy for people to be offended fairly often. My politics are very important to me but not many people think like I do, so let's learn to disagree amicably (because I value ideas and stances more than I value interpersonal ties, although ideally they won't conflict).
In the past I did neuroscience research (still interested, decided not to make it the focus of my career). I'm also interested in Bioinformatics. If I were starting it all over again, I'd probably be a researcher in mechanisms of cellular differentiation and/or aging.
I sometimes jog or go to a climbing gym, and I'd love to have someone to go hiking/camping with occasionally.
I take a lot of long walks. It's a big part of my way of life - how I think, how I keep my head together, and how I come to understand new places.
I'm not in it for the money (but don't do bad on that front), nor the power or position. I just want a comfortable life, continual exposure to neat ideas and opportunities to learn, and suitable companionship.
I see myself as a philosopher - I hold words loosely and try to open people up to different ways of thinking about just about everything. I think people tend to be excessively certain of their beliefs.
Murakami, Kundera, Ken Macleod, Rushdie
Theory of Justice, (Neuroscience textbooks), Preconditions of Socialism, Plato's Republic, the Muqadimmah. They're not books, but I also spend a lot of time reading academic journals on select sciences and current events.
Vertigo, Le Dîner de Cons, Brazil, Naked Lunch, City of Lost Children, Detective Heart of America
QI, House of Cards (the original British one), MST3k, Yes Minister, ST:DS9, Last Week Tonight
Katzenjammer, Fiona Apple, Firewater, VNV Nation, Amsterdam Klezmer Band, Danny Elfman, Bad Religion, Vienna Teng, Paramore.
Avril Lavigne and the Veronicas are two guilty pleasures.
Paneer Makhani, Saag Paneer, Samosa, Fondue, Hummus, Red Curry Tofu, Avocado Rolls. I also like Veggie Burritos, and ..
Jim Gaffigan, Sarah Silverman, Frankie Boyle, Iliza Schlesinger, Sasha Baron Cohen, Armstrong and Miller, Leslie Nielsen (movies)
Fallout's a lot of fun. I also like turn-based strategy games like Civ and MOO. Off the computer, I like Illuminati, Ubi, and Munchkin.
Travel I try to do yearly
*DragonCon - Every September
*Camping or Hiking - I hope to fit a trip in every year
*Visit my sisters and my nephews (usually in Cleveland or Boston)
I'd like to travel a bit more often
I'm pretty introverted. I don't make friends easily and I don't have any skill at flirting; there are generally gaps of years between my dating people. If I end up at a party I tend to mostly stand alone and watch people, unless I know some people at the party well.
I write a lot about everything, in various places on the internet.
My family is racially, religiously, and politically mixed. One of my parents will certainly vote for Trump, the other will likely vote for Hillary. My politics and cultural views have their own consistency but don't fit either liberal or conservative (or libertarian) norms; they're mixed, and I'm outspoken on my views no matter where they sit on the spectrum.
My strongest political conviction is for freedom of speech, both as a legal norm and as a social one. I believe we should try, as much as is possible, to make differences in viewpoints and language and definitions consequenceless. Meaning I stand with Charlie Hebdo and Mad Magazine (my Grandma introduced me to it initially) and I think it's healthy that people are offended whether they're rich and powerful or downtrodden. I also believe in busting political taboos, which gets me in trouble with most people who have strong political views.
Chances are in intellectual discussions, you'll either find me refreshingly different and deep, or incredibly frustrating. I pay a lot of attention to different ways of defining things and how concepts line up (or don't) with terms, and I like to play with ideas and words.
I like my principles more than I like people, although I like people best when they don't make me choose.
What I want from a relationship:
Who is very intelligent and reasonably assertive
Whom I find attractive (in decent shape, not fat)
Fitting a few musts (atheist/agnostic, monogamous, you read things)
Who wants to spend a lot of time together
With lots of conversations
Who also wants to explore life together (science! philosophy! other ideas!)
And who appreciates absurd humour and silly puns
And someone who feels that gender is just about genetics and maybe body shape, not about hobbies (I knit) or roles in the workplace or who should lead in a relationship
Like you I have a long list of silly-specific things beyond this that "would be nice" (that probably nobody I'll ever meet will match), but I really just want a great companion I can get along with and will grow to love, to build a life and maybe a family together.
I have this fantasy of growing old with someone and sitting on a porch on a rainy day watching the storm, heading out into the wet wind to dance with them as it pours down. Maybe that could be you.