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My self-summary
Geek, feminist, funny in some ways, curious, political although cowardly not active about it, honest, Londoner. I love to cook for people, and I have some good chocolate that needs to be shared.
What I’m doing with my life
Stable employment, in a fun enough job. In my free time, I read, go out with friends, watch anime.

I've recently decided that I'm bi/pan/whatever, mostly because I realised that trying to classify people into 'man' and 'woman' boxes before deciding if I should be attracted to them was complicated, left out too many people, and I don't like arbitrary distinctions.
I’m really good at
Software; listening to people; finding answers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I make (bad) puns, maybe too often.
Or maybe that I'm very assertive when I know I'm right, and mostly silent when I'm not sure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Writers: Catherynne Valente, Jo Walton, Mary Robinette Kowal, Kage Baker, Lois McMaster Bujold, John Scalzi, Charles Stross, Robert Heinlen, Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams, Stefano Benni, Stanisław Lem, Isaac Asimov.

Directors: Hayao Miyazaki; Isao Takahata; Mamoru Oshii; Terry Gilliam; Stanley Kubrick.

Musicians: Marian Call; The Mechanisms; CN Lester; Nightwish; Fabrizio De André; Pink Floyd; Queen; Helloween; Alan Parsons Project; Emerson, Lake and Palmer; The Pillows; David Bowie; Franco Battiato; Jethro Tull; Yoko Kanno; Jonathan Coulton.

Food: chocolate!
Six things I could never do without
General-purpose, programmable computers.
The ability to wander through my city, walking.
Two more things to put here ☺
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the universe works. How to get out of unlikely situations I make up in my own mind. How to work less.
You should message me if
You want me to cook for you. No, seriously, my cooking skills are getting rusty, living by myself.

I often buy two tickets for events, and then look for people to bring with me, so you may be lucky and get a free film / show / gig!

Or maybe you want to watch some anime? Or discuss the world-building in some novel you've read.

These days I'm mostly looking for friends I can cuddle / make out / have sex with. I'm more attracted to people who present feminine, but feel free to try me ☺
The two of us