dancc
28Chicago, United States
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My self-summary
I have a degree in Creative Writing, a post-bacc in Psychology, a massage therapy diploma, and a forklift certification. I've worked for a sex toy store and a homelessness/HIV agency. Lately I've been trying to get into bartending and financial advising. I've also done some tech theater and performed in a series of bondage haircutting films.

I don't exactly know what I'm doing with my life, but I also really enjoy learning new things.

I'm pretty into honest non-monogamy, and also laying all my cards on the table. I live with my girlfriend. We've been dating for about 4 years, we both date other people, and we have our own bedrooms. We also live with a 9-year old who increasingly seems to think of me as some kind of parental figure.

I'm not looking for any one thing here. I'd be genuinely into a casual/short-term thing or a serious/long-term thing, or even just making a new friend.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I work for a label printing company. I find the fastest and cheapest ways to print labels. After two years of doing this I find most of my job really boring, but I can also get pretty excited about explaining it to other people.

I'm also really into sex education. I make infographics about sex and relationships, present at things, and sometimes volunteer on research projects. I'm hoping this work eventually gets closer to a job I'm paid for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot and listen to a lot of audiobooks in my car too. My favorite writer is Samuel Delany. Also a fan of Margaret Atwood, Ursula K. Le Guin, Orson Scott Card, Patrick Rothfuss, and Jonathan Safran Foer. I have a soft spot for YA fiction.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
There was a point in time where cars existed but the vast majority of people didn't have them. What "future" technology exists today but just isn't common yet? (Like self-driving cars, 3D printers.) How will this tech be used? (Will self-driving cars eliminate the need for personal ownership of cars, since we can all just call self-driving cabs, which limits the number of total cars necessary, and eliminates the need for street parking, but probably means we should build cars that can drive a million+ miles before breaking down.) How are we getting predictions about tech wrong? (Maybe it's more likely that local shops will have really high end 3D printers instead of it actually becoming a household thing.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Most Fridays I'm reading a book, maybe watching a TV show, and then passing out early. Or maybe I'm out a bar or show. I really enjoy movies, weird theatrical/performance art, and fancy cocktails.
You should message me if
I'm looking for new relationships, casual or serious. I'd also be into in making a new friend.

I'd enjoy getting coffee or a drink or maybe doing a thing. I like weird art stuff, if you know of any weird art stuff going on.
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