My "probably shouldn't say that out loud" filter burned out years ago. My inner monologue is almost always outer. (I do manage to control it for limited amounts of time when absolutely necessary, such as business luncheons or an office Christmas party.)
I don't feel trapped or threatened by gender or relationship roles or expectations.
I am well acquainted with my inner child. We get together on a regular basis to play hopscotch and make silly jokes. Considering the types of jokes, my inner child is apparently a 12 year old boy.
I don't believe in soulmates, happily ever after, or "the one." I think one can love multiple people in a lifetime, and sometimes at the same time. That does not mean, however, that I want to be with someone who is having sex with lots of other people (though I care nothing for the number of previous partners, and I'm open to the idea of multiple partners, as long as there is honesty and agreement). And I do not get involved with married men. Period. I'm not judging, it's just my own personal choice.
I recently started volunteering for an organization called Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep. I offer free professional portraiture to parents suffering the loss of a baby.
I recently passed both exams to obtain the CompTIA A+ certification after one month of studying, and I'm well on my way to getting the CCENT, then the CCNA. My goal is to get into IT security in some capacity. The studying is going well, this is an entirely new field for me.
On a more serious note, and without trying to sound pretentious, I am above average at a large variety of things. I might have a superiority complex, but I'm open to learning new things, and it would be cool if you prove me wrong sometimes.
Or possibly my ramageous hair.
Okay, I admit it. I also read the occasional romance novel. Always historical romance. Usually from the Regency period. Yes, I know it's corny, and yes, it's sometimes like soft-core porn, but it's fun fantasy. Speaking of which, I do also like to read erotica.
I like comedic movies (Austin Powers, Blues Brothers), and sometimes documentaries. I'm a sucker for musicals, and my current favorite is probably Chicago. I also love film noir and psychological thrillers. And need I say that anything by Monty Python is genius! Oh, and The Princess Bride.
And theatre! There are few things more fun than seeing a live musical on a rainy Sunday afternoon!
Firefly was one of the best TV shows ever. Other than that, I watch the occasional detective show, like Elementary, Castle, or Sherlock. I don't watch a lot of TV. I also like South Park, and I will randomly quote Cartman from time to time. Whatevah! I do what I want!
Music: Everything. Okay, maybe not gangsta rap, just because of the hate. But classical, blues, classic rock, jazz (but not that easy listening jazz, so much), swing, rockabilly, some punk rock, pop, hip hop, Latin, and even country (though I'll change the station when the "god and country" song comes on). I'll pretty much listen to anything I can dance to, and some things I can't. Pink Floyd, Queen, Pink, Joan Jett, and Lords of Acid are favorites, as well as The Who, The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, The Kinks, Van Halen, and The Clash. I also like 80s pop, and big band music.
I like food. Italian food, Mexican food, Thai food. I like all kinds of food! I work out so I can eat. I'll never be one of those people who can subsist on plain oatmeal and boiled chicken breast just to have single digit bodyfat percentage. I'm also not obese, but that's only because I stay active.
The warmth of the sun on most days of the year.
The internet, with its plethora of data and information.
Music to dance and sing to.
Lip gloss. I'm addicted to the stuff!
My big, comfy memory foam bed, with its 1000 count cotton sateen sheets. Mmmm... sleeeeeep.
Chocolate is good, too. ;-)
~ You're a mostly sane guy or girl of almost any age who has had adventures (or wants to), who has stories to tell, who is driven by passion/ambition/conscience.
~ You're a person who seeks experiences outside of the mainstream--whether it's music, travel, food, extreme sports, swing dancing, or revolution.
~ You would like to make a new friend (which could potentially turn into more). If you want a loyal partner who will stay beside you through everything, but doesn't shed or drool. Not much, anyway.
~ You'd like to meet up, have a drink, and discuss politics, religion, or just about anything else.
~ You want to rose tint my world.
~ You are attracted to me because I'm sexy, but also enticed by my intelligence. If you're not put off by my zany sense of humor. If you're impressed by my sesquipedalian verbosity. (And why isn't sesquipedalian in my computer's dictionary? Doesn't everyone use that word in everyday conversation??) And if you can still respect a girl who's a little naughty.