26Charlotte, United States
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My self-summary
I don’t like most guys, but… I am not interested in most guys and perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I like a man who can take care of himself physically, mentally, and financially as I strive to do the same. If you can manage those three things as well as make me laugh, well, you've already won half the battle. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm adds a spice to life, so bring it on! I also have a bit of an "old soul". I'd rather be traveling on the weekends than standing around in a bar where I can't have a conversation with someone over loud music.

I'm at a point in my life where I am happy with my career and finally have time to devote to the whole "dating scene". I'm trying to keep an open mind about meeting someone online. That being said, I'm not looking to carry on month-long conversations via the web. I'd much rather get to know someone in person and see where things go. I'm very upbeat and have an extremely optimistic view on life. I smile A LOT and can find humor in just about any situation. If you think we'd get along well, don't hesitate to message me! :)
What I’m doing with my life
Building my foundation for success.
I’m really good at
being creative and optimistic. I'm also a great judge of character.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and my smile. I'm always smiling and laughing! It's hard to catch me on an "off" day.. I have very few! I'm a very positive and outgoing person who loves loves LOVES music. You'll usually catch me talking to someone about the music festivals I've attended or the latest albums coming out. I can talk music ALL DAY!

(notice the DMB reference for my screen name)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Outliers, Eat. Pray. Love., How To Win Friends and Influence People, The Alchemist, The Secret, The Kite Runner, and then the super predictable 50 Shades of Grey trilogy, Twilight Saga, and anything Nicholas Sparks. I also like to read biographies on my favorite designers. Currently in the process of reading about Coco Chanel and Igor Stravinsky (two major influences in the fashion and music revolution who ironically fell for each other.. aww..)

Movies: There are way too many to list. As long as it's not a crappy horror movie or sappy love story, I'll watch it. I tend to watch a lot of films based in other parts of the world.

Shows: HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER. Seriously, if you're a human being and do not watch this show you're doomed. Nashville, Scandal, Grey's Anatomy, Pawn Stars, Chicago Fire, Antiques Roadshow, and my guilty pleasure, the Bachelor/Bachelorette. I've been told It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia is great but have not gotten a chance to catch up on that show. Maybe you can introduce me? ;)

Music: This won't cover everyone buttttttt..

Who I've seen: DMB, Mayer, Black Keys, Skrillex, Jack White, RHCP, NIN (when I was like 15..yea, I'm a rebel), Bassnectar, Alabama Shakes, Mac Miller, Sleeper Agent, Ben Harper, Ray Lamontagne, Blues Traveler, Bob Dylan. I'm sure I'm forgetting some..

Who I'm dying to see: Lumineers, Lana Del Ray, Mumford, Ellie Goulding, Explosions in the Sky, Florence + The Machine, Gillian Welch, Katy Perry (yes, really), the Revivalists (GREAT New Orleans Band..check them out!), Slightly Stoopid, Rage Against the Machine (if only they were still together). As you can see, I'm all over the map in this department.

Food: I'll try just about anything once. I try to eat pretty healthy though.
Six things I could never do without
WEN cleansing conditioner.
My dog.
The Postal Service. (I run a small eBay business..)
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at the gym or out with friends! If there's a good concert nearby, you'll find me there.
You should message me if
You think that we would "click" and want to grab drinks one evening. Not a big fan of only texting and messaging online. I'm always up for making new friends!
The two of us