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My self-summary
Was reading an article that had this quote "An online profile, "is like reading the ingredients on a box of food and trying to imagine what it would taste like.""

At that point where I'm fed up with trying to fit in and doing what society or others think is right. Time to find my own path, yes I know it took me awhile. I realize lots of people figure that out in the teen years, but then some never figure it out, so I guess better late than never.

I am polyamorous, you can find my wife nolongerblondie on here my girlfriend PineBirch. And no I'm not on here for casual sex. Not my thing.

I am sensitive, open, and strong.

Some things I like to do include, riding my waverunner, riding my motorcycle, wakeboarding, wind surfing, fiddling with my bass guitar, and entertaining my kids by making stuffed animals talk to them.

I like to make desserts, cheesecake, pies, cookies, though I don't do that very often.

"Live for yourself, there's no one else more worth living for."
What I’m doing with my life
I've given it a fair shot, tried to live the traditional American dream, but when it doesn't lead to happiness it's time to rethink the dream.
I'm quite happy now, with three wonderful women who truly love me, and my work is interesting to me now that I am getting to learn some new things.
I’m really good at
being me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm bald.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'd like to find some new favorites, let me know what you suggest, but in the past I liked these things:

Ayn Rand novels, The Fountainhead, Atlas Shrugged, Anthem.
Tolkien, Orson Scott Card's Ender novels.
I don't take Rand that seriously so don't write me off due to her, seems like people have a strong reaction to her philosophy.
The God Delusion - Dawkins
And lately I've been obsessed with limericks.
Oh and Samuel Taylor Coleridge, The Rime of the Ancient Mariner, and of course Kubla Khan.

I like Indian, Italian, French, German, and Mexican food.

Firefly/Serenity - Nathan Fillion is so good.
NPH is hilarious, just saw Dr. Horrible the other night, good stuff.
MST3K - Robot roll call!
Have to add Secretary as I thought it was a wonderful love story, which some of my friends don't understand, but I guess they just don't get it. Also cause I keep seeing it in other peoples profiles and it reminds me everytime.
Like any good geek I like SciFi (!SyFy) Star Wars and Star Trek. (Yes I have been to a Star Trek convention, but that was over ten years ago, highlight was chatting with Majel Barrett)
Seems like a lot of folks mention Princess Bride, I guess it has universal appeal, I liked it.

I'm into prog rock, bands like Rush, Coheed and Cambria, Dream Theater, Blind Guardian, Symphony X, Tool, Queensryche, Nightwish, Mr. Bungle, Queen.
Also Megadeth, Korn, Live, Faith No More, Disturbed, Alanis Morrisette, Pink, Barry Manilow. I liked Purple Rain, but don't really listen to any other albums from Prince. (Well that's not entirely true. I love Raspberry Beret and Little Red Corvette) I like Maroon5 too, seen them a couple times.
Dug out some old Concrete Blond, Bloodletting, forgot how good that was. And the original Bat Out of Hell is probably what got me into prog type music.
Six things I could never do without
Never say never.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Do I have to be the type of person who thinks about one thing for extended periods of time? I mean I do think about things seriously, but it tends to be in spurts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out somewhere, trying to socialize. I like meeting people, just hanging out and getting to know people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I'll play "life is a musical" with the kids and start singing everything instead of talking. I've even got my wife to join in with us a few times :) Just always found it so funny when they'd break into song in the middle of what seemed like a normal movie, thought real life could use that sometimes.
You should message me if
If you are even thinking about it, just do it. What's the worst that could happen?

If I've visited your profile and not messaged you know that I do not message people who have "Must be single" in their "I'm looking for" since obviously I'm not who you are looking for, doesn't mean I didn't think you were interesting and/or beautiful.
The two of us