50Grand Rapids, United States
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My self-summary
I am quality, fun loving though I can be serious. I express who I really am, and will tell you the truth, just ask.... With that said, please do not waste my time with a one liner, "Hi, How are you?".... I may get the impression you are DEEP ha, not.

I am the best friend you can ever have, and expect that in return.

I always play devils advocate to get myself/you think outside the box, even when you dont agree, it is enlightening to understand and respect anothers feelings/viewpoints even when you are in complete disagreement.

I love to laugh, I crack myself up, stop being so serious all the time, arrgghhhh people, relax :-)

I am DanishAmerican first generation - thank you for my freedom, thank you to all of those who have fought and continue to fight, for our freedom. your service is appreciated. For those we have lost God Bless You and yourfamilies, no greater price can be paid.
What I’m doing with my life
Thinking about....going back...., to the gym, to school, to 1999... Right now just working and doing my best to be a good friend, a great daughter, and a nice boss. Other than that maintaining and improving my self. I miss traveling and hope to start again soon!!
I’m really good at
Finance and managing money. I have been known to be the go to person when someone has problems the neighborhood psych with the ability to also keep my mouth shut when I should.
~Making others laugh, putting a smile on their face, self deprecating humor, oh how much fun~
***Keeping secrets, going to the movies, sharing popcorn, reading books, cutting out energy draining negative people from my life, keeping it real!!! Being honest to a fault***
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, smile and the compassion within. I believe everyone is special and deserves to be treated with kindness, from the grocery store clerk to the CEO at work. Oh yeah, how easily irritated I can get with time wasters...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Six things I could never do without
God, all He provides and all of my blessings from those provisions.
movies/books both with popcorn & white cheddar sprinkles
wine, Sams club is my best friend for aSutter Home Moscato :-)
Six more things
Love, Lov, Luv
and all of the things I love that are not mentioned here :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Joining a dating website, do I or dont I?? (1 you have to pay for since I have already joined this one lol)

When I win the lottery, what degree will I complete first? Oh yes, ASL interpretor!! MSU hereI come...after I share the winnings thoughof course....

One of the ?'s on this site is about body type....one of the answers is "USED UP" oh boy what does that mean??? And is there anyone out there who answers like that? And if so, is there any way that sounds even remotely attractive? Wow that makes me shudder and laugh at the same time....
On a typical Friday night I am
Home with a bottle of wine and a great book!
Adding to my profile on this website....
Ignoring the messages that just say "Hi"
Playing words with friends...
Out to eat with a friend (I much prefer a hole in wall with great food than a pricey upscale meal that you have to dress up for)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I dont like this ?
You should message me if
You are honestly interested in chatting. I am not quick to share phone numbers or call, however if my gut trusts you I may. It is not personal, it is my way. I am slow moving but worth the wait. I love comedy, and that is a good way to get me on a date :-) If you care about animals enough to pull to the side of the road to save one...if you spend your free time helping others less fortunate....did you know that a third of the people you interact with either can't read or write? Can you imagine the world that you could help open up to them if you helped them learn???

If you have been looking for me your whole life and cannot live without me heehee, if I have made you smile then my work here is done!!!
The two of us