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My self-summary
Witch, filmmaker, puppeteer, musician, actor, writer, performer, person who cares about things, empathic, kinky, crafty, half city rat half feral rat......
Gender fluid as fuck, polyamorous, pansexual, sapiosexual, kinky, relationship fluid.

I am gender fluid and I use all sorts of pronouns depending on how I'm experiencing my gender at any given time. I'm used to "they" as a convenient default. That said I'm really only into people who think that's hot/are also pansexual, as you can see how problematic it can be for me to date someone who is either straight or gay.

I've been polyamorous for over five years, and I really prefer it to monogamy. For the most part I prefer to negotiate relationship styles on a case by case basis. I have a partner of a year and a half, and I am currently dating other people. I'm at that point in my life where I'm focusing on building a sustainable queer poly family. I'd be interested in exploring a triad or a cozy v, I'm also interested in the possibility of co-parenting with two or more.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a filmmaker, a cinematography teacher, trying to navigate the post grad primordial soup. I'm wondering what kind of life I want to create now. l might find myself in academia again, but not for awhile, cause there is so much more to life then ten-year.

Like...backpacking with goats, wild crafting, herbal medicine, building cob houses, living with wilderbeasts, and such.

Creating sustainable queer and poly family????? Can I have this and my goats two????

Can I have this with a career in film and music too??? I want it all!

I’m really good at
Music, photography/film, dream stuff, creating something cool with limited materials, reading tarot, ritual/theatre, organizing events/fundraising, auctioneering, painting, drawing, listening, laughter, massage, plant identification, knot tying decorative and sensual, crafts, singing,
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm short?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Latest books: Wild Seed by Octavia Butler, Caliban and the Witch, Women who run with Wolves, I lOVE fairy tales and fables. Also my favorite fantasy book of all time is The Neverending Story.

Movies: This is a hard one because studying and working in film has made it difficult for me to enjoy most of them. This is because I'm all too aware of the multi levels of discrimination within the industry. This doesn't mean I cant have fun watching something completely mind-numbing sometimes, but I do have less patience for brain wash.

I mostly like documentary, foreign, and art films, the ones that most people think are weird or boring. Oh, and Queer International Cinema! Some of my favorite movies are: Cave of Forgotten Dreams, The Shadow of our Forgotten Ancestors, Kush, Harold and Maude, anything Kurosawa, Fantastic Planet, Microcosmos, HolyMountain, Eraserhead, Baraka. I'm a big fan of Mya Deren, Nina Paley, Joseph Cornell, Ron Rice, Chick Strand, Jodie Mac, to name a few.

My musical tastes are kind of all over the place. I have an affinity for the Cocteau Twins, Alexai and Naima, Coco Rosie, Biosphere, Coil, Psycovsky, Steve Roach, Tin Hat Trio, Alice Coltrane, AliFarke Toure, Fever Ray, Dead Can Dance, Ajja, Bjork, Erykah Badu, Goa Gil, Hu Huun Tu. And yeah, I listen to Beyonce too.
The six things I could never do without
friends, air, tree's....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life in other areas of the world, queer sustainable living off the land stuff, making an epic piece of art, indigenous resistance, movements like BLM and direct action stuff, dismantling white supremacy, conflict resolution, the idea of sanctuary and who has access to it, creating sanctuary for neurodiversity, gardens, goats, herbs, food, healing trauma, fur and flesh babies.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I am in the woods I am asleep, or enjoying a fire, or playing music, or enjoying people's company. In the city? If something intrigues me than I will check it out.
You should message me if
You should message me if you are interested in the possibility of forming a community with me, or you think you might be a good roommate.
You are interested in some of the things I've previously mentioned.
You are really, really, really, into taking good care of yourself.
You've done some exploration in NVC, listening, empathy and compassion.
You've done some exploration in anti oppression work involving, unpacking privilege and entitlement/ striving to live in right relation to life on this planet.
You've have fun instruments, and or you like to sing, and you want to make weird music with me.
You own a loom and want to teach me weaving skills.
You want to knit me a scarf or want me to knit you a scarf.