Gender fluid as fuck, polyamorous, pansexual, sapiosexual, kinky, relationship fluid.
I am gender fluid and I use all sorts of pronouns depending on how I'm experiencing my gender at any given time. I'm used to "they" as a convenient default. That said I'm really only into people who think that's hot/are also pansexual, as you can see how problematic it can be for me to date someone who is either straight or gay.
I've been polyamorous for over five years, and I really prefer it to monogamy. For the most part I prefer to negotiate relationship styles on a case by case basis. I have a partner of a year and a half, and I am currently dating other people. I'm at that point in my life where I'm focusing on building a sustainable queer poly family. I'd be interested in exploring a triad or a cozy v, I'm also interested in the possibility of co-parenting with two or more.
Like...backpacking with goats, wild crafting, herbal medicine, building cob houses, living with wilderbeasts, and such.
Creating sustainable queer and poly family????? Can I have this and my goats two????
Can I have this with a career in film and music too??? I want it all!
Movies: This is a hard one because studying and working in film has made it difficult for me to enjoy most of them. This is because I'm all too aware of the multi levels of discrimination within the industry. This doesn't mean I cant have fun watching something completely mind-numbing sometimes, but I do have less patience for brain wash.
I mostly like documentary, foreign, and art films, the ones that most people think are weird or boring. Oh, and Queer International Cinema! Some of my favorite movies are: Cave of Forgotten Dreams, The Shadow of our Forgotten Ancestors, Kush, Harold and Maude, anything Kurosawa, Fantastic Planet, Microcosmos, HolyMountain, Eraserhead, Baraka. I'm a big fan of Mya Deren, Nina Paley, Joseph Cornell, Ron Rice, Chick Strand, Jodie Mac, to name a few.
My musical tastes are kind of all over the place. I have an affinity for the Cocteau Twins, Alexai and Naima, Coco Rosie, Biosphere, Coil, Psycovsky, Steve Roach, Tin Hat Trio, Alice Coltrane, AliFarke Toure, Fever Ray, Dead Can Dance, Ajja, Bjork, Erykah Badu, Goa Gil, Hu Huun Tu. And yeah, I listen to Beyonce too.
You are interested in some of the things I've previously mentioned.
You are really, really, really, into taking good care of yourself.
You've done some exploration in NVC, listening, empathy and compassion.
You've done some exploration in anti oppression work involving, unpacking privilege and entitlement/ striving to live in right relation to life on this planet.
You've have fun instruments, and or you like to sing, and you want to make weird music with me.
You own a loom and want to teach me weaving skills.
You want to knit me a scarf or want me to knit you a scarf.