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My self-summary
The gay norma of Denver can be a lonely place for a feral queer witch such as myself, but my bones have grown tired of rambling, and this will do for now. Besides, there's good work to be done here, like creating a femme wellness space in the heart of dude bro empire.

I'm a Gender fluid, polyamorous, pansexual, sapiosexual, kinky, relationship fluid, femme, witch.

I wear a few hats: filmmaker, puppeteer, musician, writer, and performer. I'm a person who cares about things, empathic, kinky, crafty, etc. My Piscean nature means I have a knack for the healing arts. I do have a lot of boundaries that can be difficult for some people. If you think empathic types with a lot of boundaries are hot then we can hang out. I require a lot of emotional consent. You can just ignore that sign that says free emotional labor on my forehead. I think patriarchy placed it there.

When I say I'm gender fluid, I mean that my gender is always shifting. I use they pronouns, sometimes others. I'm not a cis woman. No, really. Take a moment and let that sink in. If you are still projecting an identity on me that isn't mine, kindly fuck off ;)

To reiterate, I'm only into people who think that gender fluidity and gender non conforming people are really hot.

***Cis Het Men: I have very limited space for new students at this time. Write me a one page essay about your relationship to privilege and toxic masculinity, and I might consider you for a future opening.

***Everyone else: I've been polyamorous for over five years, and I really prefer it to monogamy. This years been an intense one partner wise. I've been casually dating, but these days I find myself enjoying my own company the most.

I'm kinky. Most kinds of sex are boring me. I'm only really into getting eaten by giant puppets or getting smashed in the face by an assortment of cakes. Since this isn't usually on the table I'm probably going to be more interested in coloring books, or pretending that I'm not human. Doesn't that sound like fun?
What I’m doing with my life
Winter Months:
Surviving capitalism, keeping a femme wellness space, working on films/music, Brain storming resistance strategies to the current DIY space evictions, DAPL, houslessness, BLM, trans and GQ suicide, the list goes on...

Summer Months
goatpacking, wild crafting, herbal medicine, living with wilderbeasts, feral femme orgies, you know, the basics.
I’m really good at
Music, photography/film, dream stuff, creating something cool with limited materials, reading tarot, ritual/theatre, organizing events/fundraising, auctioneering, painting, drawing, listening, laughter, massage, plant identification, knot tying decorative and sensual, crafts, singing......
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Latest books: Wild Seed by Octavia Butler, Caliban and the Witch, Women who run with Wolves, I lOVE fairy tales and folklore. I'm a sucker for that Jungian analysis shit. Also my favorite fantasy book of all time is The Neverending Story.

Movies: This is a hard one because studying and working in film has made it difficult for me to enjoy most of them. This is because I'm all too aware of the multi levels of discrimination within the industry. This doesn't mean I cant have fun watching something completely mind-numbing sometimes, but I do have less patience for brain wash.

I mostly like documentary, foreign, and art films, the ones that most people think are weird or boring. Oh, and Queer International Cinema! Some of my favorite movies are: Cave of Forgotten Dreams, The Shadow of our Forgotten Ancestors, Kush, Harold and Maude, anything Kurosawa, Fantastic Planet, Microcosmos, HolyMountain, Eraserhead, Baraka. I'm a big fan of Mya Deren, Nina Paley, Joseph Cornell, Ron Rice, Chick Strand, Jodie Mac, to name a few.

My musical tastes are kind of all over the place. I have an affinity for the Cocteau Twins, Alexai and Naima, Coco Rosie, Biosphere, Coil, Steve Roach, Tin Hat Trio, Alice Coltrane, AliFarke Toure, Fever Ray, Dead Can Dance, Ajja, Bjork, Erykah Badu, Hu Huun Tu. And yeah, I listen to Beyonce too.
Six things I could never do without
friends, air, tree's....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Apocalyptic witchcraft, What does it mean to be alive right meow? Queer sustainable living off the land stuff, making an epic piece of art, indigenous resistance, movements like BLM, direct action stuff, dismantling white supremacy, conflict resolution, gardens, goats, herbs, food, healing trauma, fur babies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting smashed at Charlies. Hahaha. JK.
You should message me if
You read my profile, and like me.

You are really, really, really, into taking good care of yourself.

You've done some exploration in NVC, listening, empathy and compassion.

You've done some exploration in anti oppression work involving, unpacking privilege and entitlement/ striving to live in right relation to life on this planet.

You've have fun instruments, and or you like to sing, and you want to make weird music with me.

Need an exercise buddy. Want to do something active/body related.
The two of us