I'm a Gender fluid, polyamorous, pansexual, sapiosexual, kinky, relationship fluid, femme, witch.
I wear a few hats: filmmaker, puppeteer, musician, writer, and performer. I'm a person who cares about things, empathic, kinky, crafty, etc. My Piscean nature means I have a knack for the healing arts. I do have a lot of boundaries that can be difficult for some people. If you think empathic types with a lot of boundaries are hot then we can hang out. I require a lot of emotional consent. You can just ignore that sign that says free emotional labor on my forehead. I think patriarchy placed it there.
When I say I'm gender fluid, I mean that my gender is always shifting. I use they pronouns, sometimes others. I'm not a cis woman. No, really. Take a moment and let that sink in. If you are still projecting an identity on me that isn't mine, kindly fuck off ;)
To reiterate, I'm only into people who think that gender fluidity and gender non conforming people are really hot.
***Cis Het Men: I have very limited space for new students at this time. Write me a one page essay about your relationship to privilege and toxic masculinity, and I might consider you for a future opening.
***Everyone else: I've been polyamorous for over five years, and I really prefer it to monogamy. This years been an intense one partner wise. I've been casually dating, but these days I find myself enjoying my own company the most.
I'm kinky. Most kinds of sex are boring me. I'm only really into getting eaten by giant puppets or getting smashed in the face by an assortment of cakes. Since this isn't usually on the table I'm probably going to be more interested in coloring books, or pretending that I'm not human. Doesn't that sound like fun?
Surviving capitalism, keeping a femme wellness space, working on films/music, Brain storming resistance strategies to the current DIY space evictions, DAPL, houslessness, BLM, trans and GQ suicide, the list goes on...
goatpacking, wild crafting, herbal medicine, living with wilderbeasts, feral femme orgies, you know, the basics.
Movies: This is a hard one because studying and working in film has made it difficult for me to enjoy most of them. This is because I'm all too aware of the multi levels of discrimination within the industry. This doesn't mean I cant have fun watching something completely mind-numbing sometimes, but I do have less patience for brain wash.
I mostly like documentary, foreign, and art films, the ones that most people think are weird or boring. Oh, and Queer International Cinema! Some of my favorite movies are: Cave of Forgotten Dreams, The Shadow of our Forgotten Ancestors, Kush, Harold and Maude, anything Kurosawa, Fantastic Planet, Microcosmos, HolyMountain, Eraserhead, Baraka. I'm a big fan of Mya Deren, Nina Paley, Joseph Cornell, Ron Rice, Chick Strand, Jodie Mac, to name a few.
My musical tastes are kind of all over the place. I have an affinity for the Cocteau Twins, Alexai and Naima, Coco Rosie, Biosphere, Coil, Steve Roach, Tin Hat Trio, Alice Coltrane, AliFarke Toure, Fever Ray, Dead Can Dance, Ajja, Bjork, Erykah Badu, Hu Huun Tu. And yeah, I listen to Beyonce too.
You are really, really, really, into taking good care of yourself.
You've done some exploration in NVC, listening, empathy and compassion.
You've done some exploration in anti oppression work involving, unpacking privilege and entitlement/ striving to live in right relation to life on this planet.
You've have fun instruments, and or you like to sing, and you want to make weird music with me.
Need an exercise buddy. Want to do something active/body related.