Fancy but actively unrefined.
Thoughtful and intellectually open and curious.
I just finished grad school in somatic psychology and am working towards using my skills to facilitate healing on both individual and macro levels, such as interrupting cycles of intergenerational trauma and systemic abuse without systems funneling into neo-liberal, mass incarceration.
I'm in a long distance open relationship with someone who has a live in, long term partner. I'm looking for all kinds of connections- perhaps casual, perhaps serious- open to what emerges between us. At some point, I would like to find a primary kind of partner.
Discharge Information Systems, Diamanda Galas, Philip Glass,
Santogold, Russian Circles, Explosions in the Sky, Cat Power,
Neutral Milk Hotel, KRS-ONE, Dark Dark Dark, Evangelista
TV: Hex, and it's the only thing I'll watch
fiction: Toni Morrison, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Michelle Tea, Dorothy
non-fiction: mind-body psychotherapy, somatic trauma treatment, the cultural politics of sand play therapy, mindfulness and social justice, transformative justice and prison abolition, anarcha-feminism
food: sweet potatoes cooked with kumquats, coconut oil, and lime salt; southern fried tofu burgers; & pisco sours
passion flower and lemon balm tinctures.
lots of blankets.
headphones for my busted cellphone.
You want to find a new swimming spot, you want to make experimental music in a super low key playful way, you like to cook, you want to make a dance routine, or you want to go to a punk/metal/underground hip hop show with me.
You have radical politics and are pro sex work. Trans-feminism, anti-racism, and anti-imperialism are integral to your queer politics. You are homoemotional and non-normative. I am also very interested in people who are inclusive in their politics and want to work toward movement building, rather than coolness based on having the right politics.