37 Fair Oaks, United States
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My self-summary
Let's just get this part out of the way... I am looking for a long term relationship. No hookups or short term dating. Also, I don't have kids and don't want them. I am open to getting involved with someone who has kids if they are over 18. I am not religious and its probably not gonna work out if you can't respect that. Lastly, I am looking for someone who is established in their career. That does NOT mean you need to make a ton of money. It means that my school days are over and I am looking for someone who is not in school and has a steady job. I am looking for someone who can make plans quickly without having to worry about getting a babysitter or has to stay home to study.

If you've gotten past this and are still interested, yay! I'm fun and nice and friendly and LOVE TV. Thank goodness for DVR because now I have a social life! hehe. I love meeting new people and am looking for someone to explore the city with. I'm goofy and weird and this will never change. My friends are very important to me and I always try to be there for my closest friends. I describe myself as curvy but I'm currently working on that. I love going to the gym. I am intelligent, open minded, and love to have great conversations. Hope to hear from you soon.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a Social Worker. I like helping people. It is rewarding and challenging at the same time. On the weekends, I try to do something every weekend. Even if it's just running some errands. But usually I'm spending time with friends and checking out new restaurants. I spend a lot of time reading. Mostly fiction. Because my job is intense, I do things to help me relax.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at my job. I'm also a pretty good cook but I don't do it a lot. I'm great at being me! Not in a conceited way, but I just do my own thing. I am myself in every situation. I'm usually more on the quiet side but I am very observant.
The first things people usually notice about me
People notice my smile and my eyes. And probably my glasses. Lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite food is sushi. But I love all kinds of food. I love reading, particularly horror books. I'm currently in the middle of reading about 7 books. I love all kinds of music, including country. As I have mentioned before, I watch a lot of TV to help me wind down after a long day.
The six things I could never do without
1) My cat
2) My phone
3) My TV
4) My chap stick
5) My keys
6) AC
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about life a lot and the meaning of it all. Especially since I'm not religious and consider myself a Theological Noncognivist/Ignosticist. I think about my work and how to best help my clients. I think about TV shows. And sushi. And my cat. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out to dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I watch a lot of bad reality TV. lol.
You should message me if
You should message me if you want to do more than just have cyber sex. Real sex is better. So if you start talking sexual with me the second you message me, do not expect a reply. Then, don't proceed to message me again saying "Hello, are you there", because yes, most likely I AM there, I am just refusing to engage you in sexual discussions without knowing anything else about you.

I don't want to play games so I am going to mention that I am looking for a meaningful and long term relationship. I understand that getting to that point takes time, work, and effort. But this is where I am at this point in my life. I'm not on a timeline, so it's not like these things have to happen in 6 months or whatever.

Generally, I'm an interesting and fun person to talk to and I love talking to new people and getting to know them. :)