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My self-summary
Interesting, observant, and engaging, expect the same from a man. Laser sharp discernment of bullshit. Absolutely love to belly laugh. Have a taste for the dark side of things. Find human consciousness one of the most fascinating things in the world. On the inside: woman through and through.

You: have chiseled features, self-deprecating sense of humor, big heart, deep respect for the feminine, are independent, educated, successful, multi-faceted, well traveled, tired of the superficial and ready for the real.
What I’m doing with my life
Optimizing my time so I can work on my own creative projects as much as possible. Architectural visualization by day, my own person with a vision and purpose by night. In the process of revising an illustrated short story I wrote; it's been in the works for a while and has become more involved than I ever expected. Interesting process, nonetheless. I paint people's portraits as well. Just opened my Etsy shop! Belly dance once a week, but would like more frequency to progress. Long time tango dancer and climber. In the summer, love to camp. Looking at bonfire and stars reminds me of all the important things in life.
I’m really good at
Helping a friend in need, listening, asking questions a 5-year old would find interesting, engaging conversation, self-reflection, seeking and finding adventure, tasteful jokes, appreciating nuance, poise and grace, standing on my head, standing on my head with poise and grace.
The first things people usually notice about me
Trick question. We don't know how people perceive us, only how we want to be perceived, but my laugh always seems to elicit a reaction. Usually a good one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Master and Margarita, 100 Years of Solitude, The Little Prince, The Alchemist, The Metamorphosis, Mumin Troll, anything by Edward Gorey, children's books with great illustrations;

Movies: Usually prefer foreign and independent. I like checking out what's playing at Landmark theaters. Also like criminal series such as The Fall and Luther. Wes Anderson - thank you for doing what you do.

Music: Ludovico Einaudi, Emancipator, Idan Raichel, Federico Aubele, Bombay Dub Orchestra, Purple Prose, Thievery Corporation, Putomayo compilations, and anything with drums.

Food in no specific order: avocado, dark chocolate, eggs benedict, blueberries, dark rye, green tea ice cream, shiitake mushrooms, rainbow roll, asparagus, trout, red wine, hummus, bruschetta, thai eggplant with basil, lamb, duck, garlic naan, mango with sticky rice, flourless chocolate cake, prosciutto, champagne.

I don't own a TV, but I enjoy TED talks and podcasts.
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Past and future while I tell myself that the present is all there is.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me.
You should message me if
- you have a healthy mix of ambition and ability to enjoy down time
- you have a broad range of interests, enjoy learning new skills and activities, and are not overly competitive
- you value personal growth
- you love engaging conversation and think of it as an opportunity to learn from people, not as a way to impose your point of view
- you are kind and compassionate
- you are funny as hell
- bonus points if you speak more than one language
The two of us