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My self-summary
Honest, good hearted, social & technical visionary / nerd / activist, Berkeley alum, established IT & business career, in parallel with micro-philanthropy and humanitarianism, travelled 80+ countries, speaks Spanish & Chinese, loves helping people, looking for final life partner!

Interests: organic gardening, vegan cooking & nutrition, feminism, futurism, environmental sustainability, peace studies, poverty eradication, human & animal rights, radical & progressive politics, language & cultural exchange, sociopolitical writing / activism, social entrepreneurship, charities, MMJ cultivation, electronic music, swimming, cycling, hiking, dancing, femdom / FLR, road trips, touring old towns & buildings, nocturnal walks

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What I’m doing with my life
Working remote as a technology consultant / project manager to pay the bills

Renting out or selling the properties I have in USA, and preparing to live mostly abroad

Remodeling a house in Puerto Vallarta and working on obtaining Mexican nationality

Starting businesses and humanitarian projects in Mexico and China, splitting time mostly between those two countries

Most importantly learning about myself and about life... and writing my sociopolitical ideas in hope of helping the world
I’m really good at
Communication, problem solving, mentoring, counseling / advising, making peace, bringing people together

Tech, business, real estate, int'l relations, politics, and languages

Visualizing creative & alternative solutions to any challenge. I achieve what others find impossible, unlikely, or unimaginable.
The first things people usually notice about me
Blue eyes and thick lips lol

Unusual generosity, empathy, sensitivity

Robust knowledge & life experience in myriad topics

Ridiculous multitasking bandwidth and corresponding dysfunctionality

Extraordinary transparency

Humility (except in a job interview or dating profile, because our competitive society demands otherwise, disgusting as it feels)

Fast, efficient, very confident driver (6 yrs in Europe trained me)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food - vegetarian, preferably organic vegan; Chinese, Indian, Japanese, most other Asian; lots of green vegetables, soups, stir fry, salad, etc. Home cooked is awesome... would love to go 100% raw...

Books - mostly non-fiction - self-help/personal growth, biographies, political, IT, cooking, gardening

Music - mostly electronic (trance, techno, 80s, 90s), some hip hop, some alternative or vintage rock... depends on mood

Movies - comedy, sci-fi, political, documentary

Shows - I don't watch TV these days, I've moved on, but in a prior life it was South Park, Stargate, etc.
Six things I could never do without
In truth can do without anything... but for the sake of answering:

1. healthy food, especially fresh fruits & veggies
2. access to information -- books, mentors, or internet research
3. the smell, beauty, and sound of nature -- sunlight, plants, water, wildlife in motion
4. loving and being loved, affectionately kissed and warmly held
5. hope of fulfilling dreams/life purpose, in my case to help heal and improve the world
6. sharing life, laughter, humor, smiles, and profound connection with good people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to save our planet, its foliage, air, water, and animals (they deserve same rights as us)

How to evolve into the most loving, ethical, and capable person I can be, help others, and spread positive consciousness

How to break the two-party system and make oligopolists & plutocrats share the wealth & power

My obligations to family, friends, and stakeholders

The massive societal shifts that are coming; how to navigate them

History, politics, philosophy, psychology, and most other social sciences

The best way to live; how to simplify/automate

The next creative project or learning experience

New vegan recipes and innovative plant-growing techniques

Where ideally to retire or maintain a second home, internationally
On a typical Friday night I am
As cliche as it is -- there's no typical Friday... could be:

Preparing organic vegan meals in my wok or claypot for guests

Enjoying an evening out at fine dining & music / lounge venues

Taking a road trip, visiting friends / relatives, on a self guided spiritual journey in the Prius

Heavy into a philosophical or collaboration discussions

Playing video or board games, bowling, billiards, other silliness

Engaging in creative works -- web design, writing, DIY projects, etc. (I really need to prioritize more of this!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe in the saying, "behind every successful man there is a strong woman"... and I would go beyond that to idealize the feminine as the superior gender.

I am intrigued by concepts of matriarchy, women in charge, almost any theme relating to female dominance. Thus the works of modern artist Sardax I find particularly inspiring.

I'm repeatedly in awe that a woman can use a myriad of special abilities to take control of a situation and forcefully change the outcome; even train, mold, or influence her man as needed to direct his energies and potential into a high level of accomplishment.

I keenly welcome some sort of female led relationship (FLR) or Femdom lifestyle, if it can be negotiated with the right person.

I would love to have a partner that helps drive and hold me accountable to her expectations, and to successfully reach our individual and mutual dreams, and maybe even punish me sometimes when appropriate
You should message me if
You were born female and still are female (sorry men, it's just my preference, straight)

You have benevolent intentions and are open-minded

You want to get to know more about each other

I'm easy and non-judgmental, I respect all people

If I fall in love it will be with heart, mind, and soul, not the shell...

So please don't let race, nationality, body type, or any doubts or self-criticism get in the way of reaching out to me...

But I am a bit shy, honestly it will work much better if you contact me first... Besides I enjoy being seduced or interrogated, however the case may be...
The two of us