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My self-summary
Honest, good hearted, part goofy nerd, part latent social & technical visionary; holds undergrad from Berkeley and masters from a top 3 ranked foreign grad school, established IT/business career (although have other ambitions & hope to exit corporate world), travelled 80+ countries, speaks Spanish & Chinese

Interests: organic vegetable gardening, vegan cooking & nutrition, feminism, futurism, environmental sustainability, peace, poverty eradication, human & animal rights, radical & progressive politics, language & cultural exchange, sociopolitical writing / activism, nonprofit / charity activities, MMJ cultivation, femdom/FLR, electronic music, swimming, cycling, hiking, dancing, road trips, touring old towns & buildings, nocturnal walks

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What I’m doing with my life
Work internationally and in Silicon Valley as a technology consultant, manager, and entrepreneur. Recently switched to a 100% remote position for better work-life balance and potential to relocate or travel anytime.

Adjusting to my new geographic and time freedom. I was a divorced custodial father but now my kids moved away to university. It is a new phase of life on my own, solely responsible for pretty much everything.

Remodeling my house to rent the rooms out as a vegetarian commune. Gradually replacing the tech career with passive income streams so I can eventually afford to make sociopolitical writing / organizing as my main focus. There are humanitarian, environmental, indeed existential causes that I just can't stay away from any longer

Working in the garden to stay healthy and maintain a continuous therapeutic relationship with nature.

While I'm primarily focused on the above agenda of self-improvement and transformation, of course I still remain open to find my future life partner (girlfriend, wife, soul mate, dueña, ama, diosa, however the case may be), and am actively clearing space in my life and laying the foundation to support what the cosmos has in store for us

I'm not rushing and hope you aren't in a hurry either... Amazing people come in all colors, sizes, and humble or even initially strange wrappings. I don't judge. Ideally we would start as good friends first and see what happens, not being attached to any particular outcome...
I’m really good at
Communication, problem solving, mentoring, helping others, making peace, bringing people together

Technology, business, real estate, international relations, politics, and languages

Visualizing creative and alternative solutions to any challenge. Doing what others think is impossible or unlikely, or what that they cannot imagine.
The first things people usually notice about me
Blue eyes and thick lips lol...

Unusual generosity, empathy, sensitivity...

Robust knowledge and life experience in many topics... Multitasking many goals...

Extraordinary transparency

Humility (except in a job interview or dating profile, because our competitive society demands otherwise, disgusting as it feels)

Efficient driver (6 yrs in Europe trained me)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food - vegetarian, preferably organic vegan; Chinese, Indian, Japanese, most other Asian; lots of green vegetables, soups, stir fry, salad, etc. Home cooked is awesome... would love to go 100% raw...

Books - mostly non-fiction - self-help/personal growth, biographies, political, IT, cooking, gardening

Music - mostly electronic (trance, techno, 80s, 90s), some hip hop, some alternative or vintage rock... depends on mood

Movies - comedy, sci-fi, political, documentary
The six things I could never do without
In truth can do without anything... but for the sake of answering:

1. good healthy food, especially abundant fresh green veggies
2. access to information (whether books, mentors, or the internet)
3. garden / parks / farms / nature (need to see sunlight, plants, water, wildlife in motion)
4. loving, being loved, affectionately touched, and warmly held
5. hope of fulfilling dreams/purpose of healing and improving the world
6. sharing life, laughter, humor, smiles, and profound connection with good people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- How to save our planet, its foliage, air, water, and animals (they deserve same rights as us)
- How to evolve into the most loving, ethical, and capable person I can be, and help others, hoping positive conscienciousness will spread
- My obligations to family, friends, and stakeholders
- The massive societal shifts that are coming and how to navigate those to an optimal outcome
- History, politics, philosophy, psychology, and most of the other social sciences
- The best way to live; how to simplify/automate
- The next creative project or learning experience
- New vegetarian recipes and innovative plant-growing techniques
- Where to retire or maintain a second home, internationally
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking an organic vegetarian meal in my wok or claypot for guests in my home, with music playing in the kitchen, then relaxing under the stars in the hot tub, in my garden

As cliche as it is -- there is no typical Friday... so alternatively I may be:

Enjoying an evening out in the City or on a main street of some town -- fine dining, walks, music / lounge venues, etc.

Or taking a weekend road trip, visiting relatives, having a self guided spiritual journey - I've been known to compact Vegas, SoCal, or Mexico into that short of a space... Insane I know... Leave the RV at home and fly the Prius... economical & fast

I'm a big kid, like to be silly, have fun... occasionally bowling, video games, dancing, etc. Lots of foreign language conversations.

Engaging in creative works -- web design, writing, DIY projects, etc. Need to prioritize more of that!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe women are intrinsically, overall the superior gender, the gender for our postmodern time, and the key to human evolution. As a beginning, I prefer to see women in control of the world--we would have less war and less damage to the planet if we did that.

I admire strong female decision makers and orchestrators who take charge, make the first moves, and can overcome adversity & challenges with their faith and happiness intact. I especially admire one who can tune and direct her man's energies and potential toward successful accomplishment for a lofty social purpose.

As such I would welcome a female led relationship (FLR) or Femdom lifestyle, if properly negotiated / with the right person. I look forward to be trained and molded, continuously improved, to please you and to achieve our goals.
You should message me if
If you want to get to know each other better... you are veg-friendly... love foreign cultures... are not so into TV / sports / fashion / consumerism / electoral politics, or other illusions that they eclipse important things in life... if you are at least somewhat awake sociopolitically and otherwise... so we can learn from each other... if you believe there is always something to experience or do and that you never could be bored.

Bonuses: If you are open to living & travelling anywhere, if you would enjoy dedicating a significant part of our time & energy together to solving humanity's collective challenges (maybe helping to create a new political party or whatever it takes), if you are 420 friendly, BDSM friendly (and are the dominant not submissive one), politically rebellious (a former Bernite, Green, lib, anarchist, Marxist, or other with optimism, compassion, and a burning desire for social justice), a vegan or vegetarian, love gardening, and/or speak multiple languages... if you are a kisser, affectionate, sapiosexual, open-minded, libertine / laissez faire, non-judgmental.

Any race, age, body type, career, or financial status ok... It doesn't matter to me as I'm going to fall in love with your heart, mind, and soul, and therefore whatever your natural exterior shell is will appear beautiful & just perfect for me, no matter how you or others may perceive it.

If you think you *may* possibly be interested in me, or want to know more, then please don't succumb to doubts or hesitation, just message me already... I'm easy to talk to, and I really do appreciate a woman who takes the initiative, because I am a little shy (and I enjoy being interrogated or seduced, however the case may be)... it will work better when you are the one to contact me first and you drive our relationship to your desired outcome...