69 San Diego, United States
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My self-summary
It is very easy to write a summary if there's not a lot to write about. Take me, for example. I'm simple. I was born and raised in Manhattan, as in New York City. I moved to Westchester County when my first son was born and to New Jersey when my second son was born. I married, divorced and then tried that all over again. I've been single since 1998.
I love women, but preferably one at a time. I am hoping to find the one woman I'd like to spend the rest of my life with. See, I told you, simple.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking each day as it comes. Its good to be alive and to be able to function fully as a human being every day. I try to make the most out of each day that I possibly can.
I’m really good at
Taking control of out-of-control situations. Talking with people and spending most of my time listening. Getting people to open themselves up to me, often whether I want them to or not. Making love to a woman I really care about.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm very soft-spoken, but most people will strain to listen to what I have to say. I tend to exert a calming influence on people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm an avid reader and until very recently, I averaged about 2 books a week. I prefer mystery novels, particularly the genre called police procedurals. I love movies of all kinds as long as they are well made. My current favorite TV shows are Breaking Bad, Sons of Anarchy, Mad Men & Suits. I like most kinds of music, except Hip Hop - Rap and Country. I love Classical music and ballet. I also like Jazz and plain old rock and roll. Finally, Food. I love ethnic food of all kinds, as long as its prepared properly. If I had to pick one favorite ethnic food, I would have to go with Chinese, mostly cantonese dishes, which are what I grew up eating as a special treat. Other than that, the one food I cannot tolerate in any form, variety, concentration or otherwise is celery.
You should message me if
You are intelligent, curious, attractive and are a really nice person. If you want to develop a serious relationship that is based on mutual respect, mutual interests, and fulfilling intimacy on every level, then please send me a message.