56 San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a pretty together, fun guy in good shape physically, mentally, and spiritually, and I enjoy life. Happily single, but also feel there's nothing better than connecting deeply with someone, and I would like more of that in my life. Open to all possibilities. I'd like to meet men who are happy, honest, sexy, and open emotionally. If you feel the same, let's talk and see where it goes.
What I’m doing with my life
Lately, am excited about writing (short fiction, poetry, and a blog) and teaching/learning at the meditation center I go to. I have a 3-day-a-week "regular" job at UCSF and do massage and copyediting as sidelines. Live with a great roommate and a fat cat in a nice Victorian flat; also spend free time doing yoga, eating out, reading, singing along to records, cleaning the house, riding my bike (no car), gardening, being with friends, going to movies (tvless), and ironing shirts.
I’m really good at
Loving, listening, massage, math, grammar and spelling and Scrabble, kissing, kindness, telling the truth, not looking at my phone while we're on a date. (You should be good at these last few as well.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm smiling and I have big ears.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: anything well-written, especially contemporary fiction; Movies: Independent and quirky, for the most part, too many to list. TV: almost never (I hear there are lots of good shows now, and I believe it...just don't spend my time that way). Music: you name it. '70s soul, '80s indie, newer stuff too...have a lot of records and actually play them. Food: spaghetti & meatballs, grilled cheese & tomato soup, pizza, Junior Mints, burritos, chocolate milk.
The six things I could never do without
1. intimacy; 2. a comfy bed; 3. the coast; 4. toothbrush; 5. a good book; 6. meditation/peace of mind. Honestly, I don't get very excited about material things (or people who do).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Loved ones. How physical attraction works and why I'm so picky. Whether I'll ever find that guy and if it matters. Where to travel next.
On a typical Friday night I am
home or out to dinner with a friend. typically.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll talk about pretty much anything. What do you want to know?
You should message me if
You actually want to meet (there must be a few of you on here); you're happy, loving, and sexy; you like what you've read and like my looks or need to know more before you decide; you think you'd make a good date, friend, fuck buddy, boyfriend, or something.

A high % match matters; so do looks and "spark," things okcupid doesn't have an algorithm for. It's there or it isn't.