52 Wichita, United States
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My self-summary
Ever notice how all the profiles seem the same over time. People list what they think are their good qualities and accompany that list up with characteristics that they either want or don’t want to find in others. Yet frequently those qualities and characteristics seem rather generic, even though I’m sure the individuals are not.

I’d like to learn of and meet the individuals behind the screen names and profiles. And hopefully in doing such, I will find that one who compliments my own uniqueness. Of course, the only candidates for that one, are those who will take the time to become friends first. Friends can come in all colors, sizes, sexes, locations, ages, and marital status. However, to move beyond the friend status, there is one requirement, that you be single. From that point on, a relationship is whatever we may choose to make of it. I’m selective on those I let get close and if you are that one I'm seeking, you are also.

What makes a person unique? It is the blend of the little things. Like, I bet you didn’t know I adore remodeling old houses and while I’m doing that, there will always be at least one room where I swear I can visualize what it must have looked like when first built. Or how, if my golf and bowling scores were switched, I’d be on the pro circuit for both. Or that fire mesmerizes me when I gaze in to it most things won’t register at all.

I invite you to tell me something unique about yourself…
What I’m doing with my life
Several years ago, I was faced with a choice, give up a very lucrative career and care for my mother or place her in a nursing home. Well, for me there was no choice. Which means now, I don't work 9-5 and battle with the rat race. I'm involved in another type of "race", ensuring that her remaining time is spent in her own home surrounded by things she loves and cares for.

That decision pretty much reshaped everything else in my life as I am sure you can imagine (bye bye house, car, credit, insurance, etc). But surprisingly enough, I'm happier now than I ever was with all those material things. While my mother has improved to the point that she no longer needs 24/7 care, I know my days of the corporate world are in the past.
I’m really good at
Does it sound bad if I say everything? Actually, I'm not good at a lot of things. But shhhhh ... don't tell on me. After all, a girl has to have a few secrets.
The first things people usually notice about me
People always say I smile too much. Hmmm... does that really mean others don't smile enough instead?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
You name it, I'll read it, watch it, listen to it and/or eat it!
You should message me if
You've made it this far through my profile! What do you have to lose?