day-o
32Montreal, Canada
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My self-summary
Left of left. Also, left-handed.

Many of my close friends or partners are LGBTQ people. I'm straight and cis, into non-monogamy and polyamory. I've also done monogamy recently. I guess I just have trouble being faithful... with ideologies! Zzzing!

I have quality friendships with people who are not like me demographic or interest-wise. I'd say that open-mindedness is a core value, something I'm proud of.
I'm punk rock but I love old people. I can't stand scenesterism or too-cool-for-schoolness.

I've been nomadic and am now moving back to Montreal after 7 years away. Most recently I was in Sweden for a year, France for two, and before that I was back and forth between different cities in canada, and Ghana, Tanzania, and Ukraine.

My close friends would say that I am loyal, open, ambitious, curious, self-doubting, hilarious, resourceful and caring.
My close enemies would call me a feminist, a dilettante and a killjoy.
What I’m doing with my life
-Ignoring the world of professional sports
-Fixing stuff, doing projects
-Nurturing a healthy ambivalence towards my misanthropy.
-Dancing
-Writing
-Talking politics, anarchism, community resistance and the like
-Learning about privilege and trying to be less classist, ableist, sexist, racist.
-Trying to be less damn smug and always failing
-Making and seeing theatre.
-Working with www.roofs4refugees.ca.
-Studying Shambhala Buddhism and meditating.
-Cooking, journaling, reading lots, languages.
-Rock climbing, partying, television watching, camping, hitchhiking, yoga, board games.
I’m really good at
Humour.
Empathy.
Making people laugh.
Thinking laterally.
Being forgetful.
Clown.
Learning languages.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Chogyam Trungpa
Alice Munro
Dorothy Day
Tiqqun
The coming insurrection
Jean Vanier
Kurt Vonnegut
Margaret Atwood
Eduardo Galeano
Jonathan Franzen
Gabor Mate
Radical politics n stuff
Anything which indulges my Russophilia.

Listening:
CBC
Podcasts
David Bowie
B52s
Leonard Cohen
Seinabo Sey
Talking Heads
Robyn
Grimes
Carly Rae Jepsen
Gillian Welch
Mos Def
New Order
Dirty Projectors
Bach
Can
Vogue music
Soukous
Bolingo
High-life

Movies n Tv
Toni Erdmann
L'Écume des Jours (mood indigo)
Incendies (and anything theatre by Wajdi Mouawad)
The Wire
Just discovering Almodovar
Master of None
Six things I could never do without
Performance, resourcefulness, bicycles, rhythm, meditation, I Ching.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-Is this the hill I want to die on?
-Gender, sexuality, anarchism, creativity, resistance, community, theatre, disability, madness.
-Sex.
-What to eat for supper.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
You are an outsider and you love people.
You think the truth is generally a slippery construction, but you still have principles.
You're getting tired of making prescriptions for your wellbeing.

You're not too cool for school.

You're open to different kinds of relationships, and not repelled by polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and the like. You're open also to making a new, interesting friend, without too many expectations.

You are a Russophile.
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