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My self-summary
Drummer and songwriter, originally from California, that has an affinity for sarcasm, being stubborn, and the occasional glass of red wine.

I have since met great people, played and written lots of music, and seen far fewer spiders. I count this as a success.

I'm a man that likes to enjoy the moments and the little things. Life can be good no matter what you're doing, if you keep the right company, dream the right dreams, and stay open minded.

Make things happen, and save a little room for magic.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a professional musician. I drum, I sing, I songwrite. I write about it on OkCupid.

My hands seem to prefer to be doing something.

I also enjoy reading, cooking, walking in parks and other places, eating food, staying in, going out, and exercising and staying healthy as a lifestyle.

Check out my band:
I’m really good at
I like to make jokes that are totally in contrast to the mood, in order to try and lighten it. Stop being so serious, everybody. Take that frown and turn it upside down.

I'm good at sticking to my word, keeping eye contact if I feel like it, and eating politely.
The first things people usually notice about me
My head bone is connected to my body bone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot of songwriting books. Also I dig the fantasy genre. Also some biographical texts.

Also, I like the show Community, and I've been watching The Walking Dead, but lately I've been realizing that I've made sure to do nothing so that I could watch nothing happen on that show.

I like a lot of music. Some of my biggest musical heroes? Billy Joel, Stevie Wonder, I have a man crush on Elvis Costello, John Mayer is one hell of a song writer, The Beatles, and Brian Wilson of the Beach Boys (Brian Wilson sure could write a song!!!). Some of the artists I listen on a regular basis: Tame Impala, Fleet Foxes, D'Angelo, Kendrick Lamar, Unknown Mortal Orchestra, Sam Cooke, Al Green, and the list goes on in non sequitur ways.

Food. I like food. I don't like raw tomatoes, and I don't like onions. Take me to small claims court, I don't care. I like Brussels Sprouts, and my favorite dish is Gnocchi because my grandmother makes it better than yours.
The six things I could never do without
1. Music
2. Family
3. A list of things I could never do without, to remind me
4. Sleep, probably
5. Food, probably
6. Drink, probably

I could have consolidated and fit more on there, I GUESS.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Clearly not written answers. I have a degree, I promise.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out finding something fun to do with friends or playing a gig. Or songwriting (potentially with a glass of wine; very unprofessional).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Don't wanna end up a cartoon in a cartoon graveyard.
You should message me if
You've got something to say, or even know how to converse just a little.