60 Ellicott City, United States
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My self-summary
I am a widower coming off a 30 year marriage to a wonderful woman. I am looking to begin again and am slowly trying to create something new. I would like to find someone to have some fun with...... dinner, attend sporting events ( Ravens season ticket holder and love the Orioles too) cook for, share wine with and grow with. From there we will see how it evolves. You never know. I only ask that you be willing to be patient as I journey through this new phase in my life. Let's have a glass of wine or a margarita or a shot or........

NOTE: Age honesty is very important. Lying about that says a lot about who you are, and sure would make trust difficult in a relationship. I turned 57 on 2/21. I understand the age pressure us men impose on women, believe me I do, and I applaud those that stand up in the face of it.

NOTE 2: I've had multiple women tell me I am much more attractive than my photos. I don't know, but it's very kind and I'm sure my Mom would agree. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am a parent ( 2 wonderful daughters- 20,26), a golfer ( not good)a wine drinker ( damn good at that) and a laugher... I am kind, humorous, sensitive, bright, quite financially secure, sometimes outrageous, liberal, a pretty decent writer, an excellent verbal communicator and open minded. And well, I'm just a goof.
I’m really good at
Communication ,my job, affection, cooking, making people laugh, telling a good story, being interestingly outrageous. And I was really really good at being a husband....really good. I'd love to do it again.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am properly immature.:)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- Freakonomics, Catcher in the Rye, Ball Four, Predictably Irrational
Movies- The Big Lebowski( all the Coen bros stuff, actually), Hitchcock films, Ghandi, Vacation, The Graduate, My Cousin Vinny, sappy old stuff like beach movies
Music- Wilco, the Beatles, NRBQ, My Morning Jacket, XTC, Beck, Elvis Costello, Ben Harper,Citizen Cope,Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeroes, The Clash, Delta Spirit, OK Go, New Pornographers, old soul music and more
TV-Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Daily Show, Conan, VEEP, Leave it to Beaver, Oriole games, Seinfeld,Get Smart.....
The six things I could never do without
Great food
The love of a woman
stupidly outrageous laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why friends say I am endearingly similar to Larry David. That's a good thing...right?
On a typical Friday night I am
At happy hour, then drinking wine and cooking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a horrible handyman. I write checks to the handyman.
You should message me if
You want to have a casual dinner or just a drink, play golf or attend a ballgame...or maybe just be silly for a while