dealergirl
50 Oconto Falls, United States
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My self-summary
Online dating is not an instant relationship! Right now, I have a life and you have a life - contacting me with the expectation that I will have unlimited time available or that I'm waiting breathlessly with phone in hand for contact is not only unreasonable, but an unfair expectation.

I do not lie, or tolerate liars. I do not smoke and will not consider dating anyone who smokes; the same goes for drugs. I am self-employed, and while that sounds amazing, the truth is that it means I spend a lot more time handling my own business than I would if I punched a clock. It's real, deal with it.

I care for my mother; she lives with me and we have pets, yes, cats and dogs. That means I can't simply drive off for an extended period to "hang out." It's real, deal with it.

I don't have kids, can't have kids... but I really love kids. I think that no matter how many times you see something you can see it fresh and brand new through a kid's eyes.

Finally, if you're even remotely consideringn voting for Donald Trump, maintain a safe distance. I don't want ANY hate-mongering, negative people in my inner circle. And please, PLEASE do not contact me for an easy hook-up, spend your $$ on a (900) number, they get paid to listen to your heavy breathing.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been back in WI since April 2012, in that time I have made friends and lost friends. I have completed my B.S. in Business Management & Marketing and now I work as a freelancer in online customer support and content writer.

I care for my elderly mom. I love my pets and am fostering my nephew's dog until he finds a place that accepts pets. I chose to become self-employed, taking freelance work so I could be available for my mom. When the time comes that she is no longer here I plan to explore the world; life only happens once, but it can be lived anew every day.
I’m really good at
shooting pool, cooking, and smart alec comebacks... LOL
The first things people usually notice about me
My laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love Stephen King and Brian Lumley... horror, drama, comedy, and action movies, and as for food... nothing real spicy and not much for Asian food
The six things I could never do without
My pets and the internet, the rest is negotiable! I've learned that many times the things we think we can't do without are trivial when you MUST do without them. Ultimately we will always find something new to fill the void left by the last thing we thought we couldn't do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Moving to Denmark, or some other fascinating place in Europe. The U.S. is large and I totally dig the idea that in Europe another country is about the same distance as another state would be here. I have an adventurer's spirit and I plan to use it!
On a typical Friday night I am
I am usually at home. I might have to work or I might be spending quality time with my mom. We like to watch television and I've recently introduced her to the relaxing art of adult coloring books. We get to be creative and it's something she can still do well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't deal with manipulation, guilt trips are a sure-fire way to get me to drop someone like a bad habit. I love deeply but can hold a grudge without remorse or hesitation when it's warranted. It's likely those two things are the reason I tend to like animals more than most people. LOL
You should message me if
If you've gotten this far and haven't rushed to click the X in the corner, AND believe you can avoid placing expectations or time commitment requirements on me when you barely know me, then give it a shot. Otherwise, we're probably just going to annoy the heck out of each other from the start.
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