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My self-summary
Lover of fireworks, roller coasters and slides. Cuddles and cats. Dancing under the stars. Make outs. Metalic hot pants. Gardens and altars.

I'm back in DC after half a year of traveling. I'm excited to reconnect with my DC community and looking forward meeting fabulous new folks locally.

I'm cheerful company and enjoy the friendship of adventurers, activists, queer & trans people, psychonauts, kinksters, performers, audiophiles, free spirits, and creators of joy!

I am interested in non-exclusive relationships ranging from the casual to the committed.
What I’m doing with my life
Being a friend, lover, brother, son, human.
Caring for plants, cats, houses, people.
Dancing to the beats.
I’m really good at
Playing. Adventuring. Planning. Burning the midnight oil. Making guacamole. Winning the games at Chuck-E-Cheese. Urban bicycling.
The first things people usually notice about me
My big smile. I'm a joyful boy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Sex Changes: The Politics of Transgenderism, The Emperor Wears No Clothes: The Authoritative Historical Record of Cannabis and the Conspiracy Against Marijuana, Blankets, Tekkonkinkreet, Originial Plumbing, Radical Faerie Digest

Movies - Ma Vie en Rose, But I'm a Cheerleader, Harold and Maude, Gran Torino, Up, The Girls and Boys Guide to Getting Down

Music - Aphex Twin, Four Tet, Bassnectar, Beats Antique, The Glitch Mob, Macklemore, The Smashing Pumpkins, The Weakerthans, Pavement, Animal Collective, Bob Dylan, Ani Difranco, Dar Williams, The Cure, Madonna, Rainer Maria, Regina Spektor, Sufjan Stevens, Belle & Sebastian, The Magnetic Fields, Vampire Weekend

Food - Kale, avocados, peanut butter & banana smoothies, pumpkin soup, sweet potato fries, oatmeal, bean burritos, pho, baba ghanoush, curries, puddings
The six things I could never do without
My queer family.
Quality speakers.
Post-it notes.
My backpack (stuffed full with a toothbrush & floss, spare underthings, bike lock, lip balm, notebook, lavendar sanitizing spray, head lamp, eye mask -- I have a lot of needs, okay!).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Travel, gender & sexuality, relationships, home improvement, the apocalypse.
On a typical Friday night I am
In the kitchen, on the road, or in bed. Sometimes all three!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm kind of famous. I have a flavor of frozen yogurt named after me at Mr. Yogato's frozen yogurt shop. Wanna try it?
You should message me if
You're queer and/or have and have spent some time questioning binary gender, compulsory monogamy, patriarchy, etc.

You like fun!

You're comfortable with the idea of meeting in person without excessive messaging. I don't think messaging compatibility is highly correlated with real world compatibility, and besides, you're more fun in person!