debran19
62 Brecksville, United States
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My self-summary
About me... I work hard and I play hard. I like to have fun and enjoy life and laugh. I’m looking for a long term relationship (eventually), but first get to know one another and go from there. I’m nonjudgemental. I have conceptual ideas of what I want, but feel I don't really know what until I meet a man that I want to have more than just a friendship with. I don't have a list, but I know how I want to feel.

I like to travel and learn about new things and keep busy. Sitting on the couch night after night isn't for me. Love honesty and straighforwardness.

Everything else is negotiable as we are all different and have different likes, desires, needs and wants.

Please don't write if you are in your 20s, 30s, etc. I wouldn't feel comfortable responding.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, spending time with friends and family, pursuing interests...aging as I speak LOL, but I actually feel young. The body changes but the mind still remains young!!! I'M LIVING! I enjoy traveling and seeking new adventures. Like communicating with interesting individuals and learning about topics that intrigue me. (I will never stop learning,) Presently, functional medicine is a topic that interests me. Our medical system is so messed up, but that a discussion for a different time.
I’m really good at
Cooking, giving massages, caring for others, pulling events together, computer applications, business communication, prioritizing responsibilites, kissing, listening and I have a unique intuition. However, I don't always share my intuition with people unless I know them well. I could sometimes feel and know what others are feeling when talking to them. It's a vibe thing, but I'm very aware of it. We all have that ability, just have to be opened to it! My interests and what I'm good at are very diverse and as mentioned above, I'd be happy to share more if we meet!
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile (I've been told, but never actually took a survey.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My life changes daily and my insterests are vast. I'd be glad to share information if we meet. At the moment...I just don't feel like keyboarding everything I enjoy in movies, books, music, food. Drama tops the lists in movies and in books. Forensics is fun. Theater & musicals. Food like everything eat healthy. I don't do sushi!
The six things I could never do without
Mindfulness (in the moment)
Knowledge and exploration
Communication (that means listenting too) and quiet
Exercise and Nourishment
Love -- family, friends and just one special person
Boats/planes/autos/bicycles
Nature, water, earth, air, and the beauty of it all
Nonconforming for the sake of conforming (that's why there are 8)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to attain balance in life while juggling responsibilities and necessary tasks to include the joy of sheer FUN!!! Anticipating what is next and hopeful for someone to enter my life that is accepting, flexible, understanding, honest, and would focus on enhancing life rather than controlling it. In this world we only have power over ourselves. I also think about happiness, moments and the Theory of Relativity! lol
On a typical Friday night I am
It changes weekly...just depends on the moment!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Okay....I use an oven bag to cook my Thanksgiving turkey so I do not have to baste. Really? That's funny, like I would mention it here for everyone to read!
You should message me if
You are an honest, sincere, caring, fun loving person who is not afraid of a growth and change. A mature person that has evolved and has learned through their personal expriences. If you enjoy endless couch time. I'm not for you. 20s and 30s will be immediately blocked!
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