37Jamaica Plain, United States
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My self-summary
Intensely contemplative, passionate about ideas and their instantiation, creative, working on being less destructive unless in reference to unthought social mores, deeply interested in new perspectives however rare they are, desiring resonance - I often feel like Whitman encompassing various bodies.

I currently manage a division at an efficiency/renewable energy company. Before that, I finished my Masters in Philosophy in Belgium. Before that I did environmental, human rights, and election work for about 10 years.

I paint. I write. I love bombast, wit, play, and people barreling down on life. I often find my head in the clouds (as my brain doesn't have an off-switch), until my senses compel me back to earth... which happens as a hedonist of sorts, open to and affirming of all the pleasures of life. I'm very much a beer aficionado (yeah craft beer!), homebrew (just finished a Pannepot clone), and love to cook (anything). I also edit reviews for a small videogaming website, am a practicing museum junkie, and I love riding my bike (to work, but really anywhere - preferably with some wind in my hair).

I like candor, thought, creativity, authenticity, care, passion, curiosity, singularity, intensity, taste, deformation, left wing politics, play, desire, open eyes, attention to what moves you, rigorous ideas, appreciating moments, inspiration, being overcome, the little things, overcoming, unfolding worlds...

I grew up religiously evangelical but jettisoned that long ago. My wife, MegsinMass, and I enjoy other partners, so I'm looking for extra fun and connection (more bonus points for non-monogamous / polyamorous gals).
What I’m doing with my life
Unfortunately not reading nearly enough Jacques Lacan - but making up for it with Neal Stephenson.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books (fiction):
Black Lamb Grey Falcon, Ishmael, Hyperion (Simmons), Infinite Jest, In Search of Lost Time, God Emperor of Dune, Moby Dick, The Rosy Crucifixion: Sexus/Plexus/Nexus, The Trial,

Books (non-fiction):
Difference and Repetition, The Symposium, Genealogy of Morals, Nietzsche & Philosophy, Writing and Difference, Capitalism & Schizophrenia: A Thousand Plateaus

Music: Philip Glass, Bob Dylan, Tool, Smashing Pumpkins, The Smiths, Built to Spill, R.E.M., Tori Amos, The Doors, Soundgarden

Games: Dark Souls, Morrowind, Super Metroid, Limbo, Mass Effect, Alpha Centauri, Dear Esther, Fallout 3, S:S&S EP, Dwarf Fortress

Movies: Alien, Valhalla Rising, Stalker (Tarkovsky), La Dolce Vita, Blue Velvet, Pi, The Dark Knight, Dr. Strangelove, every nature or history documentary ever
Six things I could never do without
1. Megan
2. Creating
3. The North Woods (and/or Lake Superior)
4. Ideas
5. Love & Sex
6. Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
don't get me started... "thought thinking itself" gets to be too much at times.
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging with wife/friends/dates
You should message me if
A: You like sci-fi (books especially)
B: You like thinking about the world (but aren't stuffy or close-minded) and ideas turn you on - you're turned on by living
C: think i'm hot
D: you enjoy your beer (and/or homebrew)
E: you would like to meet someone who's special, and are open to what comes of it
F: want company to a contemporary art museum/gallery
G: talk Deleuze to me!
The two of us