deljudas
58 Cleveland, United States
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My self-summary
I've been here quite a while now and I know more about what I want and what I dont want. I've also had to become a little more careful about who I respond to. If you really are interested and want a response from me then a "yo, how ya doing", or "hi, nice pics", isnt going to get it. I also tend to skip past most pictures of selfies taken in your bathroom with the toilet in the background. Don't you have a friend who can take a picture of you? Haven't you done anything in the past few years picture worthy? I also wont respond to anyone with sexual innuendo in in their name, "lovetolickyou69" or "hunglikeabullshiter". Sorry, but it would only be a waste of both of our times. I'm looking for someone a little more educated and intellectual, someone I can have a conversation with without grinding my teeth. I haven't dated in a long while and I went the opposite direction from desperate, to, not in any big hurry. Like I said, I know what I don't want, but still trying to find out what I do want.

I renovated an old bank in cleveland now i live in it. I love a house full of friends music and good food, i love walking my dogs on weekend mornings, and going for a ride on the back of a Harley or with a top down on beautiful Sunday afternoons. I get a lot of sleep during the week so i dont need any on the weekends, i wear my seatbelt half the time but figure thats a 50% improvement, i love live music and a shot of tequila on Saturday nights, but still looking for a good reason to stay in bed on Sunday mornings...i like reading, writing and decorating, work hard, party harder, laugh loud, no holding back.
What I’m doing with my life
starting some businesses that are more creative and fun, less boring.

Dating coach, (believe it or not Denny's is not an appropriate first date for anyone under 90, and a selfie in the bathroom mirror is not acceptable either.

I also do decorating for divorced men. (you know, the ones who use a tarp for a shower curtain, jelly jars for cocktails, and dry them selves off with the towel the ex used to dry her car). If you are ready to start bringing women to your "crib", (and by being on this site I assume you are), and cant afford a high priced designer, you might want to send me a message. I have an easy, no-frills, comfortable, masculine approach to design.

I also do some writing, catering and dog boarding on the side to make extra money to renovate the building...busy busy
I’m really good at
entertaining, cooking, making people laugh, fitting square pegs in round holes….i make things work.
The first things people usually notice about me
i've been told i can be spotted across a room by my wild hair,
but i think its my attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books-i read everything, but Lonesome Dove was one of my favorite books, John Irving one of my favorite authors
movies-anything by the coen brothers, or tarantino, comedies and scary movies, nothing to sad or about aids or cancer, i hate those even when they are good.
tv shows- archer, parks and recreation, HGTV, diners dives and drive thrus, there are a lot of shows I'm interested in but i only have basic cable…poor me :)
music-all kinds of music especially live blues,
food-everything but sushi, oh and indian...or mollusks, i dont like them at all, though i licked a snail once for $50...it wasnt worth it.
The six things I could never do without
my family (includes friends and dogs)
books, light with which to read the books soooo
electricity
laughter
ice cubes
my mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
writing, and decorating, planning events
On a typical Friday night I am
out having dinner with friends or at an art walk or opening
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i pee in pools……just kidding :) i have bashful bladder syndrome that makes that little social blunder impossible.
You should message me if
you are open minded nonjudgmental, non-conformist, and you've completely lost your friggin mind. if you'd like to get to know someone nice and fun, a little unconventional...at worst im a good friend to have.
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