denimes
58 Manhattan, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
denimes
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
Really?

OK, this is why I'm here, my "ad":

Seeking intimacy, in any of it's myriad forms.

I'd love to be turned on and fall in love with somebody. Lived a long time, but that state of affairs has mostly eluded me. Meanwhile, I relish meaningful connections of all kinds. There are many ways of loving people, and they're all to be cherished.

I appreciate complexity...but abhor dishonesty.

Be who you are, who you really are, and light up the world with it. There's nothing sexier. Or more valuable.

Please note: I'm not a paying member here (anymore). So if you "like" me without sending word of some kind...I will never know.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, filling out forms. I don't like forms.
I’m really good at
Well, I'm a good person, that I can say.
The first things people usually notice about me
How would I know?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read much anymore besides the New York Times. Favorite films are from the 30's & 40's, I'm avid about them. Favorite music, classical. Nothing man has wrought in any field exceeds this sublime legacy, a crowning achievement of Western civilization that has been woefully deemed irrelevant in our education system. I also get passionate about great singers (read Judy Garland) singing great standards from the so-called "Great American Songbook". I cherish the sensual pleasures of dining on good food & drink, simple & complex, and love sharing the experience with others. Not on the list, but I have to throw it in, I love horticulture, growing things, and being in gardens. My greatest frustration as a city dweller, where they won't even allow flowers on the fire escapes outside my windows.
The six things I could never do without
Six? Ah, it's a form.

Frankly, most of what I need, I don't have in my life right now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what it means to be alive
On a typical Friday night I am
umm, well, it's Friday night now...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I strive to comprehend the reality of things, external & internal. The direct and honest expression of myself is the only way I know. But everything has its time and place.

This ain't it.
You should message me if
...if you're the slightest bit intrigued. Yeah, it's a gamble. But who can assess anything here? A moment in person will transmit more information, communicate more, than all the words & pics in cyberspace could ever hope to.

N.B. The age cutoffs I entered are arbitrary. I had to put something there. Didn't much like being pigeon-holed in the last "looking for" category either, but couldn't leave it blank, so I checked 'em all.
More