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My self-summary
If you know the Scarlet Ranch, what a flogger/Violet Wand are, are kinky and geeky then we've a good start!

I am active in the area fetish community. I'm a Daddy Dom. (Note: NOT a sugar daddy). I'm Fetish Friendly and my forte is violet wand play.

My photo page on Facebook is Photos by Badmanjerry (give a peek)
Fetlife: Badmanjerry
Snapchat: Derickthark
KiK: DrSirius01

** I'm going to be honest. I admire women who make the first move. I admire the courage it takes to do it (Considering we men do it quite often...with various results). But I'm not interested in larger women. I've had past relationships with women who were curvy, but BBW just doesn't do it for me. I admire you all for reaching out to me, but no thank you. I don't mean to offend, but I have my idea of a partner in mind.**

Women keep asking where the good guys are. Where the Nice guys are. Speaking as one of the good/nice guys? You have one right here. Sometimes you have to look beyond what you see 'here' and look into the person themselves. I never see 'age'. I see the person. Feel free to step outside the 'norm' and see what others have to offer.

For Sale: One (slightly used) older man. Free to a good home. Cooks and knows how to separate whites and colors. Easy to care for. Potty trained but has a tendency to leave the seat up. Sold As Is......
What I’m doing with my life
Divorced for awhile now and trying to see what this big old world has to offer. I love cooking and am a damn good cook. Consider it part of the 'selling points' (smiles)
I’m really good at
Listening, Cooking, Kissing, Cuddling, and Caring
I do photography. I still call myself the 'newbie' around town, even though the other more tinctured photographers tell me I'm not (laughs)
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes. I'm told I have great eyes. I consider myself the man with a face and voice made for radio but (Smiles) I'm told I'm not a bad looking sort
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Heinlein....Pratchett....and similar authors fill my shelves. I really enjoy a good scifi/fantsy humor book.

Comedy SciFi/Fantasy and Action are the top of my collection. I've a small 'bad' B-Movie collection. Killer Klowns from Outer Space, Army of Darkness and such. Honestly? My tastes are varied. I can dig a 'chick flick' like Mrs Winterborne and follow it up with Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Practical magic, the craft, Constantine, and Highlander.

I'm stuck in the past. I enjoy music from the late 60's through mid 90's. Occasionally they come out with something good in recent times...but those were the days when you could have the worse song in the world....and still have a song with a beat and you could dance to it. Even though I can't dance. I'm the stereo typical caucasion. I dance like a white boy with a stick in my rear.
Six things I could never do without
I'm sure there's a 6th thing......
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at one of my games or home sitting watching tv/on the computer
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Um....I'm a geek? (laughs)
Fetish lifestyle friendly. I'm a bit of a Daddy Dom, myself
I have a fetlife profile under Badmanjerry (that private enough?) LOL
You should message me if
If you're looking for someone who's real.
The two of us