51Holland, United States
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My self-summary
My life revolves primarily around my work as a designer and my position at a premiere fitness club. Between my interest in art (I play piano by ear, have taught myself guitar, paint, write, and act on stage as much as possible) and athletics (I spend hours each week playing tennis, wallyball, volleyball and weight training), it naturally follows that I crave the company of creative and fit individuals.

So yes, I'm very physical but I have a strong feminine side. My guy has to be particular about how he takes care of himself - be in great shape and know how to dress. I like a man to look sexy. I admire someone who likes to take the lead as long as he doesn't overwhelm me with constant attention. And I will admit to being hypocritical in the respect that while I am a feminist, I love a man who opens doors for me, pulls out my chair, sometimes pays for dinner, perhaps even orders for me, offers to drive... Contradictory I know. I must have the right to wear the pants but I want them to fit you better ;)

I am a health and fitness fanatic, quite direct, a bit of a neat freak, devoted friend and loyal employee. I can be sedate or kind of wild, also incredibly romantic without being clingy. Able to converse in a variety of subjects (including sports) and especially enjoy politics.

Another thing, if I still have your attention, I am actually 50. I was told by several physical trainers that I look and live years younger and I would be excluded from searches by men who would otherwise be interested. That in fact, 50 would be misleading. I have had many favorable responses from younger men so this has held very, very true. With that in mind.....

Not a big fan of self-descriptions like "laid back, easy going, down to earth...." Tell me what's interesting about you and why I would love to know you better.

What I’m doing with my life
I have been on a mission the past few years to fully participate in life, indulge my passions, love more and acquire wisdom. Sounds like a Julia Roberts movie, but the pursuit has transported me to a calmer place than I ever could have expected.
I’m really good at
Creating something beautiful, useful and unexpected from next to nothing. My entire house is full of recycled, refurbished, painted or turned upside down yard sale finds. My end tables are plaster elephants from the front of someone's house. A plant stand is part bird cage part manhole cover. And no, my home doesn't resemble Pawn Stars, it's more out of a decorating magazine and I love to entertain.
The first things people usually notice about me
An instant smile and confident posture, a "live and live" attitude, a lack of prejudice, and a genuine desire to know you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
As a performer I'm a tv-movie aholic with a full DVR. I'm vegetarian for a multitude of reasons but I love spicy food and eating out in intimate settings. And I can bake like you wouldn't believe - my own creations of course, I would never use a recipe.
Six things I could never do without
Time to meditate
The internet to reach out to those I love wherever they are
The internet to research and improve my mind
My health supplements
My piano
A really good kiss
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to be a better person, and what makes others tick. Not particularly religious, I am a true believer in karma and very spiritual.
On a typical Friday night I am
working at the health club, working out at the health club, sometimes socializing, but I'd rather be on a date!
You should message me if
you can handle a strong woman who is able to give you space but also can be passionate and generous to a fault.
The two of us