desertsun45
48 Berlin, Germany
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My self-summary
I'm open, honest & genuine. Great conversation with depth is important to me as well as getting a good laugh. I'm easy-going and I love life.

Some things I'm serious about such as respect & tolerance. I really enjoy people's similarities and differences. So much to share, learn, and grow! I can't stand people who are judgmental or racist. That also means I want to be valued for who I am. You can ask me any question but do not tell me what to do.

I'm not a black & white thinker; I see thoughts, feelings, values, actions on a continuum. Having compassion and understanding for people's own path is vitally important for me.

I like the outdoors and I hike pretty regularly. The mountains, the fresh air...

I love to travel and see other cultures. I've spent about half my life in Europe and in the US. It's certainly expanded my horizons. There is something about living in another country that questions one to the core. What is valued in one culture is not in another. So it has put me in a position of reexamining myself and finding out where I am, who I am.
What I’m doing with my life
I have two professions and I am very dedicated to both. One is in education and the other is in healthcare. Both professions are about creating change, new pathways, and realizing potentials. Growth and reaching new heights.
I’m really good at
being straightforward. I also tell far too much truth. Lol
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile. I enjoy life!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten, The Giver, Die Zeitfalte, Omnivore's Dilemma, Dumbing Us Down, Das Kartengeheimniss, The Alchemist

Movies: Green Mile, Shrek, A Beautiful Mind, Brokeback Mountain, American History X

Shows: Daily Show, Colbert Report

Music: anything but country unless it's live

Food: I'll try it as long as it doesn't move
The six things I could never do without
friends and family
conversation
a good book
coffee
humor
honesty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Beauty. It is all around us. And if it is not, then let's create it. This pertains to simple things and also to big things in life. It is in the choices we make about our interactions with people, and that includes ourselves.

I recently came across a statement: Don't be reckless with people's hearts and don't spend time with people who are reckless with yours. So true!

Intellectual depth & emotional maturity...and people's lack or richness in these qualities.
On a typical Friday night I am
socializing with friends and eating good food. Or I might be winding down from a full work week and doing self care, still with good food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
nothing on this site!
You should message me if
you're interested in an honest & confident woman who enjoys some serious fun!

I am not into drama nor games. If you are, please don't email me and waste my time.

I have a lot to offer and I'm looking to share my time with someone who has a lot to offer as well. I'm talking about being able to hold up a conversation with depth, being able to step into the experience, having personal responsibility for your actions. Connecting deeply. Core values.

Currently I am not living in Berlin but I come to Berlin about 6 times per year. It is here that I want to date.
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