designfornow
64 Albuquerque, United States
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My self-summary
I have revised this profile. I feel that I have come across as too self-effacing. I have more to offer than what I have to date put in this profile.
I am recently divorced (well 4 years) and am starting a new life and direction. Right now making new acquaintances is my focus.
I am basically a quiet introvert, but want to meet and enjoy others.
I really enjoy the company of women. Their strength, intellect and spirit.
See the questions I have answered to get an idea of my general views on things. I will try to answer more as I go along. I present myself as I am.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a very good career as an office support person in a law office that I enjoy very much. Right now, I am apartment living in Albuquerque and enjoying it. My ex moved back to the East Coast, and my son is not in my life at this time ( He is an adult). Getting used to being on my own, and enjoying it!
I have siblings, but they are in other parts of the country.
I’m really good at
Listening to others. Respectful of others, while having my own views.
I am a good conversationalist and interesting.
The capacity to really be interested in what others have to say, and conveying it to them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am quiet and reserved, but open up after a while.
Nice smile and not artificial.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy reading very much! Many things; history, current events, science fiction ( H.G. Wells, Isaac Asimov, etc...), political and social writers ( Thom Hartmann, other liberal/progressive writers), science.
TV - TCM, PBS, college sports, Science and Discovery
I do like museums, art galleries, etc.
I love movies of the 1930's and 40's, and my music tastes are classical and contemporary jazz. I listen to classical radio, The Oasis FM and Progressive radio (Stephanie Miller, Thom Hartmann, etc.).
My food tastes are scattered, although I am eating less red meat and more fruits and vegetables. I like spicy foods as well.
The six things I could never do without
Right now, time for myself to think about and act on my future life.
Walking for relaxation and exercise.
Meditation to some extent. Am new to it.
Well, I could probably do without any of the above, but it would be a very dreary existence.
I must add my siblings, even though we are not close. I find that as the years go by, they have become very important to me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The current condition of this country and world, and how much meaner and selfish it has become. As you can probably surmise, I am Progressive/Liberal in my political, social and spiritual views, although you cannot label me across-the-board and call it a day. In this new life of mine that I am exploring, I am moving out of my shell and opening up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Resting up from the work-week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Just ask me.
You should message me if
I am not on the A-List, so I can't see who likes me! Please message me.
If you are a woman (straight, bi, lesbian) who is interested in stimulating conversation or activities, or intrigued by my profile! This is all new to me, so pardon me if some of this is ackward or unpolished.
Just contact me.
Under "looking for" I put single, but possibly open or polyamorous.
Addendum: While I am a good listener, I want to do more than merely message back and forth forever. I would eventually like to actually meet some people.
Thank you - designfornow
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