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My self-summary
I like to be mysterious.

"Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth.". -Alan Watts

I'd rather save this convo so we can get to know each other and have something to talk about. :]
Finding stuff to talk about is really hard (and no fun) when you listed all your freaking interests! lol So I'd rather you find out for yourself.
What I’m doing with my life
Fucking around this Earth until I die,DUH...

I bury people. lol
My philosophy on the stupidity of this question.
I’m really good at
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"Your personality is a complex system of likes and dislikes. They are the fundamental basis - the building blocks, of your personality. Existing in the world with likes and dislikes is a very foolish way to exist. Please look at it carefully - the fundamental basis of your BONDAGE is in like and dislike. But unfortunately, the logical mind makes you believe that doing what you like is your freedom. While operating on the physical realm itself, even with your work or family - likes and dislikes make you do stupid things. If you don’t like somebody - even if this person is doing something wonderful, you will not see it. If you like somebody - even if they are doing terrible things, you cannot see it anymore; your intelligence is forsaken."

I spend a lot of time thinking about
When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden.

For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.

Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast.

All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.

But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.

When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of God."
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.

Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.

-Kahlil Gibran
You should message me if
You're actually willing to meet up and get to know each other in person. Or at the very least willing to text/talk on the phone, Skype, or Snapchat. :)
I'm not here to be pen-pals for a month; plus the #1 complaint I've heard from women on here is that the guy they met up was NOTHING like he was in his profile or when they were messaging online.
So let's skip the games and actually talk. ;)

Do NOT message:
I can't believe I have to say this in this day and age of gender equality and feminism BUT...
You're not obligated to give sex right? So don't expect me to be your free meal ticket.
I got the first date (even the 2nd) but after that its Even-Stevens.
And for the sake of is something both parties would enjoy, but I don't get a kick out of wasting my hard earned money on you, thinking we hit it off, only to never hear from you again.