60 Tarrytown, United States
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My self-summary
I'm mellow, spiritual, Buddhish, philosophical, foodie, home-loving, contemplative – the creative artistic type. While I've lived on both coasts, traveled quite a bit, and enjoyed a good dose of adventure – now I want a partner for cocooning, cooking, snuggling, binge watching series, exploring small towns and more...

However, I'm NOT interested in hooking up. I want a deeper connection.

I like to dance (Zydeco, Salsa, Swing) and also do yoga, and enjoy hiking. But my partner doesn't have to do it all. Companionship and conversation is key.

WHO I'M LOOKING FOR... I'm looking for a unique man who is worldly, smart, hard-working, soft-hearted, with a good sense of humor... a sweetheart who is confident, relaxed, trustworthy, and compassionate. Wise and mature but still has a youthful spark. Someone to settle in with, travel with, share my life with.

- I'm looking for someone local... hopefully within 50 miles or so of Tarrytown, NY.
- My hair is naturally silver/blond. It started to change color when in my teens.
- I don't lie about my age. I was born in 1956.
- Sometimes I wear my hair curly, and sometimes straight.
- I live by the golden rule, practice a bit of Buddhism, blended with a pinch of the world's great religions.
- I have 1 very affectionate cat.
- If you are married - even just a little bit - please walk on by.
- I will not send $ to anyone who is stranded overseas (unless you are related to me... and even then.... Haha... )

May you be well, peaceful and happy.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a branding, marketing communications, graphic design company. Each day has a new challenge to solve, and it never gets dull. I've also taught as an adjunct at the New School, SVA and Westchester CC.

I'm also studying a form of complimentary medicine called homeopathy and loving the challenge. Homeopathy is a gentle and effective form of healing that is very popular around the world.

...Plus... taking care of my house and garden, listening to music, hiking, meditating.
I’m really good at
Design, cooking, dancing...
The first things people usually notice about me
My silver hair, my light green eyes, nice legs and no particular accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: wide variety of poetry, fiction, design, biographies, nutrition, herbs, homeopathy
FILMS: indie, foreign and documentary. Jacob Burns Film center is one of my favorite places.
THEATER: I'm more interested in drama, but I'll go to a good musical once in a while.
MUSIC: very eclectic.... Jazz, Brazilian, Reggae, Salsa, African, Madeleine Peyroux, Bonnie Raitt, Adele, Amy Winehouse (so sad she's gone), WFUV, WBGO, WNYC
FOOD: I'm a foodie.. I love ethnic foods of all varieties. When I cook, I go for fresh, locally grown, healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Clean sheets, hot showers, kind and romantic YOU (if I ever find you).
Secondary, but up there: great food, travel, dancing, music (especially Salsa, Bossa Nova, Jazz, African beat, Reggae), art.
(Ok, yeah, that's more than six. So sue me.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. How/where/when I might find you...
2. Finding magic and mystery every day...
3. My soul... and how to best use this precious and wild life.
4. Exercise, healthy diet, staying in shape.

Most importantly - how best to practice loving kindness.

[Note: I am not God-fearing. I see God in nature and in the eyes of those who are gentle and kind. I don't fear God. God is love. Namaste.]
On a typical Friday night I am
Most often just relaxing after a long week of working hard, cooking a meal, watching a movie. Probably wishing I had someone to cuddle with. Sometimes listening to live music, or going to dinner with friends, or seeing a film. (And then... occasionally, I'm dancing -- sometimes Salsa, sometimes Swing, a little Hustle, Zydeco or just rocking to the beat. )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I won't say here.... But if we become close....
I'll whisper in your ear....
You should message me if
You are kind, gentle, and witty and within driving distance. Quirky is ok. Angry, not ok.

May you be well, peaceful and happy.

NOTE: I am not an upgraded user, so I cannot view any "likes", so if you do "like" me, please send me a message and let me know. You never know where it might lead.

(Oh, btw it would help if you are NOT allergic to cats. I have a very sweet and funny feline, Kiko.)