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My self-summary
I've come to realize a few things about this site. Many don't care to thoroughly read the profile of someone they are interested in. For those that aren't truly interested in getting to know me for me I feel the need to clarify my intentions for this site. I'm here to find someone I could ideally connect with on more than just a sexual level. I'm tired of getting messages from guys that just want to get between my legs. Because of this I've come up with a bit of a solution that could potentially be of beneficial for both of us. If you are not interested in what I mentioned above them I am also open to a SUGER/SUGER BABY type of arrangement. If you aren't interested in either then please move alone.

I like to say that I am unique in both my lifestyle and personality. My appearance alone may seem intimidating at first. However, I am a pretty easy and fun person to get to know. I also lead another lifestyle that is often misunderstood by many. I am polyamorous. In other words I may be married but I don't believe monogamy is for me. My husband and I have a very open marriage. I choose this lifesyle for reasons I don't mind explaining if asked. Don't be shy to ask me anything. I don't bite...hard that is. :P
I also posses a crazy personality. By that I mean crazy in a fun way of course. You will fine out once you get to know me. People tend to warm up to me easily because of this. I believe in living life to the fullest. Life is too short not to. I also don't believe in being judgemental. I only do so when I feel I am being judged for who I am. I believe perfection does not exist. Therefore no one is perfect. I would never say or think I am better than anyone else. Why strive for perfection when it is something that is unattainable? Just respect yourself for who you are and not who you desire to be.

I often mention to people who ask me what brings me to a site such as this; I like to say that I have no expectations. However, like pretty much everyone on here I have desires. Ideally, I would like to find someone whom I could eventually establish a deep connection with. One that is more that just sexual. Someone who also understands the concept of polyamory as well as accept it. I am tired and of getting messages from people that just want sleep with me rather than get to know me for me. Not my goodies. I'm tired of being objectified. I am way more than just a piece of ass. Hence me updating my profile. I do believe that it is possible to love or have strong feelings for more than one person at the same time. I also believe that it is virtually impossible to find one person who posesses all the characteristics you desire to make you feel complete. This being said I don't believe I am lacking anything nor am I trying to change the belief system of others.
What I’m doing with my life
I belong to a model and talent agency that basically is looking for the girl next door type which isn't me of course. I am still trying to get my foot in the door just by being myself. It is hard to find and agency that is looking for really unique qualities other than race.
I’m really good at
I like to say and I have been told that I am a good singer aswell as a dancer. I am trying to get my own band started where I am the lead vocalist. I love to dance. It is in my blood. I have a Caribbean background. My mom is from St. Vincent. It's close to Barbados. She's black, Caribbean Indian and Portuguese. My dad is Trinidadian black as far as I know. I love and respect my culture very much. It's a big part of me.
The first things people usually notice about me
People tend to notice that I am not your typical black girl. Mainly due to my attire. I tend to wear a lot of dark clothing. Although now I'm trying to incorporate more colour in my life. Things really do change as you get older. I also have piercings and tattoos as you could tell from my profile pics. I love piercing and tattoos on myself and other people but you don't need to have any of these for me to be attracted to you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy all genres of movies though I do have a passion for horror and comedy. I am pretty eclectic when it comes to music aswell. However, as with my taste in music I do and always will have a passion for metal. As for my taste in food. I am a little picky but I don't have a problem with trying new things. I do love Chinese, Italian and caribbean dishes though.
The six things I could never do without
I could never be without my phone, keys, piercings, music, friends and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I often think about the meaning of life and our existance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending quality time with friends and or family
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There are a few secrets about myself. Secrets that shall remain private until I believe you are fit to receive such "naughty" details ;P. If you are desperate to find out try getting to know me better. I promise once I share my secrets with you you won't be disapointed. I can't give away all my goodies that easily now could I? ;P
You should message me if
I welcome messages from people who have an open mind and are 100% willing to accept my lifestyle. People who aren't judgmental. If you are loving, caring and affectionate and enjoy having fun and living life to the fullest then I am your girl. Also if you are willing to date and possibly develope a relationship with me that's a definite plus. Providing you are comfortable me being both married and poly of course. Again not expected but of course appreciated. Please DO NOT message if you are looking for a one night stand or a friends with benefits type of arrangement. Thanks.