I don't like stagnant, settling for less than awesome or accepting the status quo just because that's the way things have always been.
I want to do awesome things with awesome people. Be that going on adventures, talking ideas for hours, discovering amazing things, random acts of kindness, indulging our senses, playing games or hanging out in a blanket fort telling really crap jokes and eating wine gums.
I'm ethically non-monogamous (emphasis on the "ethically" bit.), sex positive, kinky and a feminist. I'm looking for the same in others that I connect with (kinky isn't essential, but at least GGG is). Definitely don't fuck tories/'kippers etc.
**Sometimes I like to change my location on here for shits n giggles. Northampton (where I am physically based) isn't very diverse and I'm not opposed to long distance liaisons with the right people.**
Trying to improve it. Trying to be a good parent. Reminding myself to find joy in the little things.
Learning how to cook new tasty things.
Hanging out in the hot tub.
Pretending to be shot, angry or blown up on humanitarian and foreign aid training courses.
Helping crochet bricks and grass and other things for a giant woolly wendy house and woolly picnic and other related yarn bombing stuff for charity.
Organising the odd social get together for non-mono folk in Northampton and beyond. https://www.facebook.com/groups/433998870091376/
I also help organise my local munch.
Writing the odd bit of NSFW fiction.
Making slow but steady progress with physiotherapy after a pelvic injury, getting back into swimming and weight lifting. It hurts, but it feels good to be doing it again. The hardest bit is moderating myself as I can be a bit all or nothing with such things sometimes. I have Joint Hypermobility Syndrome.
Going off on tangents.
Throwing hot tub parties.
Cooking stuff. Fights break out over my lime curd and nobody leaves my house hungry.
I also think I am OK at taking pictures.
"He who binds to himself a joy
Does the wingéd life destroy;
But he who kisses the joy as it flies
Lives in eternity’s sunrise."
- William Blake
"The cow is of a bovine ilk,
One end moo, the other milk."
- Ogden Nash
“Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift.”
― Mary Oliver
"May the Angel of Wildness disturb the places
Where your life is domesticated and safe,
Take you to the territories of true otherness"
- John O'Donohue
Tastebuds/last.fm : diamondflamer
I don't think listing all the kinds of things that I enjoy consuming really tell you that much about me as taste is such a subjective and individual thing. I'm just as happy consuming a fish finger sandwich with ketchup as I am in a Michelin star restaurant and that applies across music, film, games, shows etc. The most important thing is variety and openness to new experiences. I value that in others too, above what floats their individual boat.
One thing I will share that I discovered recently though is The Get Down on Netflix. Oh my word, it's amazeballs and you need to check it out. Including the soundtrack. DJ Pho has made this awesome mixtape of it for your aural pleasure.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hNUDiYOv8bE
You can tell me a really silly or crap joke. You get extra points if it's one I haven't heard before or you made it up yourself. Limericks are also good.
If you can think of something interesting to say about yourself and want to have a decent conversation.
You need a good recipe.
Many of us are here for sex in one form or another (yup, I admit it, I want to get physically deviant with people just as much as the next person), but that doesn't mean I am going to talk to you about it, a total stranger on the internet who isn't paying me for the privilege and is incapable of being respectful and understanding of sex positivity.