Geeky artsy fartsy writerly type who hates trying to make himself seem like a good gamble for a couple of hours of "seeing if there's chemistry."
I am geekctacular, really behind on Breaking Bad, and not very good at picking three characteristics.
I'm a rocking househusband. I've got two people living here who recreate post apocalyptic movies in every room at least three times a week, and yet I still keep this place moderately clean. And a stay at home dad...without the "actually dad" part. (The kid is my girlfriend and her husband's.) I'm domestic A.F.
I'm really good at procrastinating--really, really good.
Oh, and back-rubs. Epic back rubs.
notice me at first. I can be very shy in an open social situation
until I know people. Just know that if at first I go tarn for a
while, I'll warm up quickly. Just give me some room to feel out
your boundaries (which is not as creepy as it sounds). Once I feel comfortable that I can be myself, I'm not nearly as mousy.
Unless we're Facebook. Then they notice that I post about social justice a lot.
Movies- So many. Lately I watch a lot of Pixar movies over and over again because of the kiddo. And there's absolutely no way that I'll admit here that I kind of like romantic comedies too and I sometimes "Awww" right along with red_fish when they finally kiss. None.
Not technically a movie, but worth mentioning: I've really enjoyed shows that HBO makes. I was sad to see Carnivalle and Deadwood canceled, but I had a lot of fun with Rome, The Sopranos, and 6 Feet Under was just AMAZING.
Music- If it came from the soundtracks section of the music store, chances are I'll like it. Anything mellow as well like Enya, Erasure, Enigma (all those E's). Also I seem to have a 80's thing, though I think what I really like was all the synthesizer going on. (Maybe I should have put this under "the most private thing I'm willing to admit...") They Might Be Giants, Sting, Cake. But then I also love thumpy stuff with angry Germans who are apparently in need of a naps and suppositories. And smooth jazz. It's very eclectic, and tends to have more to do with the quality than the particular style.
Books (you see what I did there? Slick huh? I suppose if you let me do a shopping spree on my Kindle I could actually say ONE thing, but I actually really like books)
Writing stuff. You wouldn't like me when I'm not writing.
The Internet. I'm pretty much "that guy" about it.
The fam- Love those peeps. Even though there's generally a moving goal post about who is in the fam.
Boundaries. Seriously I tried that. It's ass.
Lotion. My skin is pretty dry and I really only thought of five things.
Here's one thing I COULD live without though: more questions like this.
You are interested in something less frequent, more casual and NOT primary. Yes, my girlfriend is married, but she is my primary relationship, and will stay that way. (If you don't like labels and relationship hierarchies, I agree, but I think that is probably vernacular with which I can express my current limitations and have everyone understand.
Logistics make high-time-commitment relationships impractical for me. I work three jobs and I am in a major relationship. I don't have much more bandwidth than a once-a-week or twice-a-month sort of thing. Of course, anything might evolve, and where things go is anyone's guess, but that's where I need to start.