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My self-summary
Now that I've been on here for a bit, let me say some stuff up front so as not to waste anyone's time. ;~>

I'm not looking for quick hook-ups, bi-men, polyamory, guys looking for "cougars."

Currently, my favorite activities are diving, photography, and hiking (fourth attempt to summit Mt Shasta was in June). I think I'm a bit of an adrenaline junkie.

INFJ on Myers-Briggs scale. Locally active in a couple different non-profits, and prefer to be outdoors on the weekend. However, I lived in SF for 25 years (last 15 in the Haight) and do sorely miss all that city has to offer (museums, small venue rock shows, North Beach). So trips to the Bay area are high on my activity list too.

Love to read, and don't get enough time to do so. Sci-fi to The Economist. Activities include scuba diving, hiking, photography (digital and film). Not the golfer type.

Friendships are extremely important to me, and I include among mine some wonderful men with whom I've never slept!

I love a ribald, yet kind sense of humor in a person. Sense of ethics are also of great importance. I steer clear of people with anger management issues. Prefer to stay in the moment, and not dwell on negative possibilities.

Card-carrying member of the ACLU.

I am adventurous, curious, and intelligent.

And I have a poo-mutt I rescued in Loreto, MX in 2013.
What I’m doing with my life
Seeking contentment, meaning, laughter, a life partner
I’m really good at
avoiding filling this in. . .
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"Art and Fear," "The Time of Our Singing", "Guns, Germs, and Steel," "Arctic Dreams," "Till we Have Faces," "Blood Meridian," "Dangerous Visions" sci fi series, "A New Earth."

"Margaret," "Biutiful";"Hedwig and the Angry Inch," "Sex and Lucia," The Queen," "Avatar", "Spinal Tap," "American History X," Pinocchio

Any band of Jack White's, Led Zeppelin, She Keeps Bees, Cat Powers, Black Keys, Louis XIV, Leftfield, classical guitar, Goldfrappe, Moby, Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, Beethoven, Steve Earle, Jimmy Dale Gilmore, The Gossip, The Ponys, 80's punk (e.g., X, Gun Club, DK's), Jane's Addiction, trip-hop, ambient. Favorite radio KEXP in Seattle. Almost anything except big-name country.

Malaysian (developed taste for it during 4 months of traveling and research diving), other Asian, taco-truck tacos, corn-crust vegetarian pizza, seafood, kale, Chinese long-beans, pesto, artichokes, rare organic grass-fed beef, fresh local produce

We will exchange further “likes” when you get in touch.
The six things I could never do without
the ocean, my drysuit, laughter, friends, my laptop, the opposite sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
trying not to think too much
On a typical Friday night I am
no such thing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still like punk music
You should message me if
if you sense the possibility of a frisson between us. A traditional "date" is not necessary. Be creative!