I am a radical feminist with a keen nose for any hint of creeping patriarchy, the silent killer. That said, I am also a yogi who believes that anger is an acid that does much more damage to the container holding it than to anything it is poured on.
I try not to start grasping.
Even to the idea of putting down or letting go.
And there is one thing I know
That is that I
Will never reply
If you fill in none of the detail
Required for this kind of retail
Dating where the only shot I have
At any advantage
When a co-operator is faced with
The competitive nature
Of those sporting the y chromosome
Is if I have the advantage
Of forethought in our interaction
So no pics and not stats?
I say absolutely no to that.
And yes, the above is aimed at cis men specifically. If that is problematic for you, look elsewhere. And skip the lecture about what a sexist I am and how you too are oppressed. I am very tired of manspaining that gets into why how I feel is not valid. I don't really care to hear why I am wrong. And I will just block you.
Women get a total pass to do whatever they want with their profiles and I feel no need whatsoever to dictate what that is when what makes me feel uncomfortable has everything to do with power imbalances and from where I sit, that has generally been an issue I have only with men. Sorry not sorry.
Additionally? If your profile says something like "no drama" I will laugh my ass off and never reply. Cause you are not LIVING your life, you are existing in it. Barely.
Currently cooking at a busy wine bar, writing lots of poetry and wandering around the paths in my new neighborhood with my dog...
I am an excellent teacher of all things food, from production to presentation.
Looking much better than I appear in photos, I have recently realized.
And I suffer from resting confrontational voice...
I disappear from the world for the month of April, annually, to write poetry.
And that is not to say my kids and my critters are not important, I just don't think of them as things.
What is the question, since the answer is 42.
When I will be hungry again.
How far I will run next week.
Who the fuck am I?
I think I find it difficult to come to orgasm with another person paying attention to the fact that I am. It's a stretch to even type this. Lol