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My self-summary
Renewing an interest in this site. I'm married aialonso in case you didn't see that.

I'm complex, intellectual, compassionate, passionate, kind of radically liberal but not in the way you might think. Some would say opinionated but that's just a slam used by those who can't keep up. I'm actually very open minded and give more room than most for personal opinions. I have a very kind heart despite my outer shell, and an awesome sense of humor. I'm sort of a guy inside.

I'm a natural woman. =) that's code for I am a dirty hippie. I don't shave my pits and I don't wear deodorant. I use no commercial beauty products accept a rare bit of makeup. My breasts are real, my hair color is real, my fingernails are real, etc. I've been known to skip a shower... or 6.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a social activist. We're screwed if we can't learn to respect each other as equals. This happens in childhood so I advocate for peaceful healthy birth, genital integrity (no circumcision), no spanking or hitting of any kind, and breastfeeding. After that I'm an environmentalist.

OK OK... some hobbies: I recycle everything, I compost. HOBBIES DAMN IT! ...I knit, I like movies, I make artsy stuff sometimes, I color (like, in a coloring book - don't judge, I have one of vulvas)
I’m really good at
I give great advice. I see outside the box. I'm pretty patient and that makes me good at lots of stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm different. I get "you're the most interesting person I've ever met" a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Deep, heavy, brainy stuff. Poetic or moving.
A Patch of Blue. The Virtue of Selfishness. When Elephants Weep. The Magic of Reality. The Last Hours of Ancient Sunlight. Sex at Dawn.

Life is Beautiful. Fantastic Planet. Inside Out. Shawshank Redemption. Quest for Fire. The Life of David Gale. Amelie.

I have a LOT of music sung in other languages for someone who doesn't frequently buy music. I love most music, my tastes are eclectic.

Most TV is shit. sit-coms are the bane of society. If you don't have a real hero, you're just adding to the problem.
The new Dr. Who. Cosmos. Scrubs is actually a pretty decent show. Save me from watching tv.

I love ethnic food. I don't eat shit because I don't want cancer. (FYI: the government allows big business to put toxic shit into your food)
The six things I could never do without
The word shit apparently... Did you see that^?
Never say never. Unless it actually applies of course.

I often think about what I'll miss the most after the social structures collapse.
Cheese. god I love cheese.
Hot showers
Exotic fruits
Being warm despite the weather
The right to my soapbox
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's wrong.
How to make things better.
My role.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm a super homebody. That's why I'm here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want an intact man (romance wise). That means has not been circumcised. This isn't me being shallow, I promise. The short of it is: circumcision changes the penis in a functional way, and I cannot fully and freely enjoy that kind of sex. Yes, this is a requisite. Sorry.
It's possible to manually restore your foreskin: NORM.org

The medium of it:
Once the man has penetrated, the skin is pulled back to the base of the penis and when there's outward motion the foreskin is what slides up the penis, NOT the vaginal skin. This keeps the wet inside, instead of dragging it out with every movement (and exposing it to the air where it dries), and reduces irritating/distracting friction for the woman. (there are no friction sensitive nerves in the vagina, only pressure sensitive nerves) An intact man has better sensation all the way down his shaft instead of just at the head, so his strokes are deeper and shorter, (keeping the partners close and intimate) whereas the c'ed man wants to stimulate the head (the most sensitive part of the penis after the foreskin is removed) by pulling it out to the tighter vaginal opening. This contributes to drying and can cause air to be pulled into the vagina. Needing more stimulation due to keratinization, the c'ed man tends to pound harder, which can be fun sometimes, but not as a constant need. It can be difficult in addition to drying. Naturally there's a variable here...not everyone is the same. The foreskin isn't just MORE sensitivity, but a bigger variety of sensations. there are stretch receptors and Meisner's corpuscles. There are also positive mood effects of the man absorbing vaginal fluid (as there is with injesting/absorbing semen for the woman) which is limited by keratinization and removing mucosal surface area of the penis and estrogen receptors.

For the long of it, check out sexasnatureintendedit.com
You should message me if
You know what honesty is and why it's important.
You take good care of your body and your earth.
You have read all of the above and you are capable of saying something other than asking me for my personal information, how I'm doing, or coming on to me. A message like that gets deleted instantly.
Also, if you're 'short' don't think that you need a girl that's 4 inches shorter than you. I like short. =)
NO bigots. NO smokers.
Also, this isn't a place for debate, it's a place for people to find people they have an interest in. Do not message me if you're a douche who only wants to tell me how wrong I am. I'm SO not interested. I'm sorry if the info I share makes you feel bad, that's not my intention.