27 San Diego, United States
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My self-summary
Old soul/young heart, thinly-censored, theater dork, intersectional thinker, ethical hedonist, poly, artist, alien/angel. I just want cuddles and belly rubs.

I love challenging creative endeavors, showering my friends with love and good cookin', and discovering paradigms that supplant systems of oppression. My heart throbs for art that surrounds and engages the body: modern dance, esoteric art installations, beautiful architecture, period set designs and costumes, inspired cinematography. That's if a beautiful forest, cave, or mountain is not accessible.

Botany. Fractals. Energy medicine. Comedy. Self-love. Critical Theory. Queering. Basset Hounds. Disability in dance.

I Live in San Diego proper and am moving to LA next year.
What I’m doing with my life
Healing and being a Shaman in training. I study energy medicine-- Reiki and other forms. Let me practice on you?

I'm using my experience with queer biz and chronic pain to create a comedic web series. I am always looking for collaborators. Spoonies holler at me.
I’m really good at
Dry wit, appreciating ritual, imagining travel to Peru, homemaking like it's 1959. Empathy. Midwestern foraging. Identifying ceramic glazing, construction, and firing techniques. Complaining about mediocrity with entitled sincerity. Ranting about how to transform porn culture with a new invention of porn.
The first things people usually notice about me
Wait, you were sitting in a mobility scooter and now you're standing? And then yesterday you were walking without it? Also I want to fuck you? Can all those things coexist?

Yeah brah I'm a magical unicorn;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I am reading Joyce's Ulysses. He's a genius. He is an asshole. Anyone who wants to nerd out on it, please msg me. Audre Lorde, Shakespeare, Dostoyevsky, Gramsci, Kobo Abe, Eli Claire, Martha Nussbaum, Jung, C.S Lewis, T.H White, William Burroughs

Movies/TV: I am interested in developing my film history knowledge. The Fish Child, The Life and Death of Peter Sellers, Water Lillies, Nymphomania, The Salt of the Earth, Mishima: A Life in Four Chapters, The Lives of Others, A Bit of Fry and Laurie, The (British) Office, Mad Men, Carnivale, Bob's Burgers, Archer, Adventure Time, Broad City, Transparent, Inside Amy Schumer.

Music: Fela Kuti, Feist, David Bowie, T.Rex, M83, Aretha Franklin, Diggable Planets, Phillip Glass, Rachmaninoff, Mozart, St. Vincent, Lauryn Hill, Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings, Chvrches, Charles Mingus.

Food: Succulent stinky cheeses, glowing multicolored tomatoes, Korean barbecue, The sausages of the world. All the warming spices of Ayurvedic cuisine. You want to put on some cooking shows and go down on me? I'm into that...
The six things I could never do without
Diva cup.
Bright lipstick.
Lovingly-created handmade mugs.
A purpose.
The dog park. (If you have a dog, I will go out with you at least once. but said dog must be present)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
--My body mechanics, my body, the body politic.
--Epigenetics (Inherited trauma in the DNA...definitely worth a google).
-- My eroding grasp of Spanish.
--The creation zone. Where your brain turns off and some new wonderful force takes over.
--How to make people happy...and also codependency;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Meeting up with friends. Finding their chickens and grabbing them just right until they are convinced that they like my cuddles.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
"Shakespeare in Love" is my shameless porn.
You should message me if
You can meet me near my place. My health kind of sucks now, so I'm looking for people who can be tender and accommodating and chill for low-key loveliness. I'll read you silly poetry and feed you bright fruits for a back rub.

You believe a healthy life contains a full community of people, who you are intimate with in whatever way you choose. That said, I am looking for real intimacy and commitment in a " primary " relationship.

I like friends!! I treat them so nice!!