27 San Diego, United States
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My self-summary
Old soul/young heart, queer, thinly-censored, intersectional thinker, ethical hedonist, poly, artist, healer. Cuddle monster.

I love challenging creative endeavors, showering my friends with love and good cookin', and discovering paradigms that supplant systems of oppression. My heart throbs for art that surrounds and engages the body: modern dance, esoteric art installations, beautiful architecture, period set designs and costumes, inspired cinematography. That's if a beautiful forest, cave, or mountain is not accessible.

Botany. Fractals. Integrative alternative medicine. Comedy. Critical Theory. Disability rights. Film. English bulldogs. #blm>#alm

I like 'em all, femmes and androgynous folks, big and small, just gotta have sincerity to sweep me off my feet. I date cis men once in a purple moon.

I am super grouchy about San Diego. Me like urban planning. Show me how to love it again?
What I’m doing with my life
. I'm a full-time healer of myself this year. While l've had chronic pain for most of my life, I think I'm way healthier than most of the people I meet. I am interested in integrative medicine, meditation, herbal concoctions, Capitalism's scheme turn suffering into profit ( and how to resist!) and finding humor in everything!

I'm using my experiences to create a dark comedic web series. I am always looking for collaborators, people with stories to share, and skills to contribute!

When this is over I will start dancing again. And probably be a shaman. Or a comedian. Perhaps they are the same?
I’m really good at
Dry wit,appreciating the little stuff, keeping it all in perspective, vintage hairdos, hostessing like it's 1959. Dark humor.

Tolerating pain like a boss. https://www.facebook.com/superdeluxevideo/videos/251694308508460/
The first things people usually notice about me
I am sometimes easily identified as the oddly hot chick in a mobility scooter. Nerve damage flare ups=paradigm shifts. Or sometimes I'm dancing at the bar-- depends! How exciting I must be.

Red hair. Collar bones that kill?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:I My bookshelves burst with political and social theory, critical theory, crystal healing shit, postmodern theater stuff, Shakespeare, acting technique books, some gender theory, naturalist books on foraging. My "favorite" books are really childrens books.

Movies/TV: The Fish Child, Elizabeth I, Beginning, Heartbeats, 2 or 3 Things I know About Her, Mishima: A Life in Four Chapters, The Lives of Others, 3, LOTR, A Bit of Fry and Laurie, The (British) Office, Archer (season 1-3), Adventure Time, Broad City (pre-Hillary Clinton endorsement) Inside Amy Schumer S3, most anything Paul Thomas Anderson, Cohen bros.

Music: Fela, Benny Goodman, Feist, David Bowie, T.Rex, M83, The Andrews Sisters, Mozart, Lauryn Hill, Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings, Chvrches, James Brown. MINGUS!

Food: I have so many dietary restrictions these days… But I can motherfucking cook. I'll cook the pants right off of you.
The six things I could never do without
My momma (she's a person though).
Excellently-crafted handmade mugs.
Ethical slutitude
The dog park. (If you have a dog, I will go out with you at least once. but said dog must be present)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
--Relearning religions of my ancestors.
--What is healing?
--How is empathy created and accessed in the brain?
-- How to say things in Spanish.
--returning to acting.
--Web series!
On a typical Friday night I am
Meeting up with friends. Finding their chickens and Trying to convince them to love me through treats and cuddles.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a really large collection of vintage aprons?
OK, OK: I cannot wait to be 45 years of age. I will finally be able to wear big swoopy linen shawls 24/7. And hopefully own lots of goats on a big farm. Maybe in Australia.
You should message me if
I don't believe in finding "the one." I believe a healthy life contains a full community of people, who you are intimate with in whatever way you choose. That said, I am looking for real intimacy and commitment in a " primary " relationship.

I like friends! Don't message me if you're going to be all pissy if I just want to be friends. Friends are awesome!