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My self-summary
Old soul/young heart, thinly-censored, theater dork, intersectional thinker, ethical hedonist, poly, artist/alien/angel/witch.

I love challenging creative endeavors, showering my friends with love and good cookin', and discovering paradigms that supplant systems of oppression. My heart throbs for art that surrounds and engages the body: modern dance, esoteric art installations, beautiful architecture, period set designs and costumes, inspired cinematography. That's if a beautiful forest, cave, or mountain is not accessible.

I Live in San Diego proper and am moving to LA in two weeks !
What I’m doing with my life
Healer. I study energy medicine-- Reiki and other forms. Let me practice on you?

I'm using my experience with queer biz and chronic pain to create a comedic web series. It's like if Broad City had a baby with Foucault and Waiting for Godot. Terri Gross is going to interview me and then go down on me. Or at the very least she'll let me go down on her.
I’m really good at
Dry wit, appreciating ritual, imagining travel to Peru, homemaking like it's 1959. Empathy (too good). Midwestern foraging. Identifying ceramic glazing, construction, and firing techniques. Complaining about mediocrity with entitled sincerity. Ranting about how to transform porn culture with a new invention of porn.
The first things people usually notice about me
Wait, you were sitting in a mobility scooter and now you're standing? And then yesterday you were walking without it? Also I want to fuck you? Can all those things coexist?

Yeah brah I'm a magical unicorn;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I am reading Joyce's Ulysses, nerds HMU. Audre Lorde, Shakespeare, Dostoyevsky, Gramsci, Kobo Abe, Eli Claire, Foucault, Jung, C.S Lewis, T.H White, William Burroughs, Keats, Virginia Woolf

Movies/TV: Teach me film theory pls! The Fish Child, The Life and Death of Peter Sellers, Water Lillies, Quills, The Bicycle Theif, The Salt of the Earth, Mishima: A Life in Four Chapters, The Lives of Others, A Bit of Fry and Laurie, The (British) Office, Sopranos, Mad Men, Carnivale, Bob's Burgers, Archer, Adventure Time, Broad City, Transparent

Music: TEACH ME SOUND! Fela Kuti, Feist, David Bowie, T.Rex, M83, Aretha Franklin, Diggable Planets, Phillip Glass, Rachmaninoff, Mozart, Lauryn Hill, Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings, Chvrches, Charles Mingus.

Food: Succulent stinky cheeses, glowing multicolored tomatoes, Korean barbecue, The sausages of the world. All the warming spices of Ayurvedic cuisine. Picky eaters Beware!! HISS!
The six things I could never do without
Diva cup.
Bright lipstick.
Lovingly-created handmade mugs.
The dog park. (If you have a dog, I will go out with you at least once. but said dog must be present)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
--My body mechanics, my body, the body politic.
--Why don't I know more about post structuralism, contemporary Art, local politics, Martha Graham, Africa...
--Epigenetics (Inherited trauma in the DNA...definitely worth a google).
-- My eroding grasp of Spanish.
--The creation zone. Where your brain turns off and some new wonderful force takes over.
--How to make people happy...and also codependency;)
--Sex, but like all these things are also sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
"Shakespeare in Love" is my shameless porn.
You should message me if
You believe a healthy life contains a full community of people, who you are intimate with in whatever way you choose. That said, I am looking for real intimacy and commitment in a "domestic" relationship.

I like friends!! I treat them so nice!!

Please no couples. Please please. Please. That road is well-trod and full of brambles.