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My self-summary
All around geek, love politics, books, and mostly computers. I'm a programmer. I'm sensibly passionate, and ideologically pragmatic. I'm sexually dominant and in a polyamorous relationship. I believe that people don't fall in love. People fall in lust. Real love is something you choose. You climb in to love, just like you climb in to a warm bed, every night.

I live with an amazing woman who I met on here. We are poly, but are happy together and don't find much time to date other people. However, we both remain open to anything from semi-casual dating to finding someone else to join our little family.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to make the world better, even if only in some small way, by doing what I do best - creative and analytical problem solving. Mostly a salary slave for now, I do have dreams of entrepreneurship. I'd like to change the world - wouldn't everyone?
I’m really good at
Writing computer programs. Seeing patterns and possibilities others ignore. Knowing the best solution. Patience. Just keeping swimming.
The first things people usually notice about me
Lately I sport a super short buzz cut. People have spontaneously said "ooh-rah!" to me, but it's not a military thing, it's all about the low maintenance. The second thing is that I'm oblivious. What was that?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anything by Robert Heinlein, Orson Scott Card, Ursula K. Le Guin, or Spider Robinson. Recent good reads include Sex at Dawn, Brain Bugs, and Shada.

Movies: Star Wars (original trilogy only), Blade Runner, Blood and Donuts, most anything by the Coen brothers (though I haven't seen enough of them), The Matrix (what a shame they never made any sequels!), Love Actually, Three Days of the Condor, The Princess Bride, and probably a lot of great ones I'm not thinking of.

Shows: Doctor Who is my absolute obsession. I'm blown away by The Newsroom and generally will watch anything written by Aaron Sorkin. Glee is amazing and makes me happy. I also really like Touch. If I watch a sitcom, it's probably something like Modern Family. Some past favorites include X Files, Seinfeld, Arrested Development, Star Trek (original, Next Generation and DS9), and Firefly. I don't watch much TV lately... I'm trying to only watch things I can't stand to miss.

I'm going to throw in my podcast list here too: 60 Second Psych; 60 Second Science; Performance Today - Piano Puzzler; Best of the Left; Freethought Radio; This American Life; Freakonomics; Rachel Maddow; Car Talk; Two Minute Time Lord; Quirks and Quarks; Rationally Speaking; Sex is Fun; Starship Sofa; State of Belief. If I have headphones on, it is probably a podcast. If you'd like to suggest something you think I'd like, please do!

Music: I don't listen to music much (see above). I tend to like music with good lyrics. The Beatles deserve special mention. I particularly like good old jazz, lively classical, punk, industrial, alternative, folk, reggae, ice cream truck music, didgeridoo, polka... I like anything if it's good. I used to say I don't like country or rap, but I like Johnny Cash and Bob Dylan and the Dixie Chicks, and I can't name it but I'm sure I've heard some rap that wasn't awful.

Food: Hailing from Chicago I love good pizza and hot dogs. Sushi is awesome. I tend to like spice. I like most good foods, and like to try new things. I've considered going vegetarian.
Six things I could never do without
Well skipping the pointless answers (air, water, food, shelter, clothing), I guess:

1. Coffee/tea
2. Computers
3. My phone - for podcasts, shopping lists, and web, more than actually talking.
4. Books. Although I'm trying reading on my phone, so maybe that doesn't count anymore.
5. Sex.
6. Work - or more generally, problems to solve.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics, sex, love, programming, psychology. Ways to combine the above?

Would you like me to psychologically program you to be my loving sex slave, or is that politically incorrect?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Now look, I've already admitted that I'm a kinky nerd with a love for British sci-fi, cheesy chick flicks, and musical television. What do you want from me?

OK, I sit to pee.
You should message me if
... you're ready.

Ooh yeah that was cheesy. Please do message me, I'm sure I'd love to hear from you.
The two of us