32Wichita, United States
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My self-summary
I am different. I go against the flow, and am predictably unpredictable to most. I'm an Aquarius for those who care... I consider myself a walking contradiction... I want what I can't have, I have what I don't want, I will argue the for the side I don't believe in just to be able to debate with someone. I am ice cold and detached while also being blue-fire hot and overwhelming. I LOVE people. I can't help but care, even for my enemies, so I guess I am more in touch with what other people are feeling than most. I hate customer service, I hate working customer service, I hate calling customer service... it's gross. I don't wear my heart on my sleeve anymore, but I can still feel as powerfully, you just might not realize it at the time...

I work full time, and spend a lot of time with my church, because it is important to me., I hate boredom. I love all kinds of books, movies, games and music. I like to dance(read LIKE, does not imply that I excel) =D. I like smiling, but am in my true element with a group of people, you would not recognize me when i'm by myself, I'm like a completely different person solo. I am not out and about as much these days... my funds are low, so I am working on conserving them atm. So you can usually find me at home, church, work or my LYS(read Local Yarn Shop) the TWIST. It's my home away from home.

I am an avid knitter, and my yarn stash probably looks like the inside of my brain... total chaos!

I am driven, independent, and am looking for the same. Just because I like to be lazy on occasion doesn't mean I live life that way...

I recently had an epiphany. I realized that still after several years of making my own way, that I was still living my life by other people's rules. As so well stated by Elphaba, I'm through with playing by the rules of someone else's game. I'm making the rules now, and I am kinda writing them as I go along... so we'll see where I end up. This is going to be one very interesting ride!

Anything else you want to know? Ask, and you will have your answer... on a scale of 1 to 10, I have a level 1 verbal filter...I just barely filter what I say. If you want to know what I am thinking, just listen, I don't typically hide behind anything but rhetoric. Also, just an FYI, I am GREAT at reading people, except for when I'm interested. You could literally be throwing yourself at me, but for some reason I just think you're being friendly. So being forward is not a problem. Can you be forward enough?

I am musically inclined, a total Aquarius, and walking CHAOS!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I am trying a lot of new things...I have lived in Wichita since 2008... I work Customer Service for CCH, and some days I love my job, other days I just enjoy it. I like helping people, so I guess this is a great fit for now... I am working on getting promoted as high as I can manage....

I also spend a lot of time working with my church. First Metropolitan Community Church. It's an awesome place, and I really enjoy investing my time there.
I’m really good at
Singing, playing instruments, working with computers, people, and tend to be everyone's shoulder. I am great at knitting, and you can usually find a random project within my arms reach... just don't take me to a yarn shop... you might not like the rabid monster I become. ;-) I love to listen, and I do whatever it takes for my friends. I always try to make people laugh, and at the very least smile.
The first things people usually notice about me
My Eyes.
My shy smile, and hesitancy to maintain eye contact.
That I talk too much, and much too quickly.
That I genuinely care about individuals, but admonish the general populace...
That I don't care about the opinion of strangers, and care too much about the opinion of those close to me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anything but Romance Novels...I mean seriously? Bodice Rippers are NOT my thing.

Movies: Most anything...I am a cinephile...

Music: I tolerate Country from the 80's to Today...Hate Rap, and Crappy R&B...Everything else I like, and I will make exceptions for exceptional quality...

Food: I LOVE sushi. I don't eat a lot of red meat, but some on occasion. I love fish and fowl. I'm gluten intolerant, so that doesn't work for some people, but believe me, it's better than the alternative!
Six things I could never do without
My Friends
My Family
My Digital Piano, and the Baby Grand I'm allowed to practice on...
My Computers
My Books - I have a whole library...
My Knitting
My Phone...ok, that's shoot me! ;-P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, where I want to be in the future, my family and my friends, my personal footprint on my world...
On a typical Friday night I am
Knitting while watching Netflix. Having a game night with my geeky friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Double Entendres are my enemy... when I get nervous, excited, or tired, everything I say can be taken two ways...
You should message me if
You enjoy music, movies, laughter and fun. If you are looking for Friendship, Romance, or just someone to talk to... Now accepting applications for snuggle buddies seeking something deeper than sex alone.
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