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My self-summary
I am a 23 year old, somewhat quirky (is it okay to call yourself quirky?) ENFP.

I spend a lot of time in my head. I'm very passionate when it comes to all my interpersonal relationships (although sometimes it can be bad thing), and I don't hold back being expressive and true to myself.

I'm also a social butterfly, and simply love to get to know people. For the most part, I get along pretty okay with most.

I think everyone needs to love themselves enough to not give a shit about what anyone thinks of your sexuality (even your family).

I love a good conversation with a nice guy over a glass of wine, and seeing where it might lead to... Romance is always welcome! Sex is a complicated thing - I believe in love and making out and touching and cuddling and all that mushy crap so it's a lot more about the person you're with than what you're doing with them.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm still trying to figure that out. Even though I know what I want, I haven't figured out how to do it.

Although right now I'm dabbling in lots of stuff, such as theatre (acting, singing, stage managing), events design, tutoring math and science (I'm quite good) and I like to poke around graphic design.
I’m really good at
A lot of things! Fiddling and fixing things, technology, I'm into all kinds of subjects, anything from history and politics to nuclear science to pop culture and gossip. Jack of all trades, maybe master of some?

My first love is music, singing, playing guitar and basically the whole performing shenanigan. I wouldn't say I'm good but I think music expresses what words alone are unable to and through music I'm able to fully express my unbridled passion. I love to shamelessly sing and perform anywhere (bars, streets, wherever), whether or not I have an audience, whether or not anyone approves, or whether or not anyone thinks I'm good. I listen to everything and anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a little weird. Just a little. It's good right? Not too much. Too much weird is bad? Also, I'm really funny? I think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: I love self-help books by Cheri Huber and Alice Miller. Non-fiction books ranging from history to science. I like fantasy novels too, George RR Martin (just finished all the books!!!), Suzanne Collins, Sarah Maas. I like cheesy romance novels once in a while, like Nicholas Sparks and Tony Parsons (embarassed). And travel literature always works for me. And I LOVE Stieg Larsson's Millennium trilogy.

MOVIES: I don't watch that many movies but my favorite movie right now is Goodfellas, directed by the awesome Martin Scorsese. Other movies I like include the Harry Potter series, random French films like Amélie, Entre les murs, the SWEDISH version of the Millennium trilogy movies.

SHOWS: I'm a massive TV junkie. Grey's Anatomy, Burn Notice, HIMYM, Desperate Housewives, Suits, Friends, Sherlock, Glee, Castle, 30 Rock, Avatar The Last Airbender, The Legend of Korra, Community, Cougar Town, Modern Family, White Collar, The Good Wife, Survivor, Happy Endings, Project Runway, GAME OF THRONES OMG.

FOOD: Food glorious food! Love everything that tastes good! Special mention goes to Vietnamese, French, Italian, Cambodian, Perankan, and local food.

HASHTAGS: #gayrights #books #psychology #intellect #politics #culture #food #travelling #television #film #music #technology #trivia #buddhism #zen #volunteerism #charity #socialchange #activism #philosophy #existentialism #hedonism #musicaltheatre
The six things I could never do without
My brain
Great food
Hot men
Intelligent people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. I always ponder about my life. This world. Things happening. It's frustrating because I can't fall asleep easily.

I have a very strong sense of social justice, compassion and empathy, which is why my friends always come to me for advice, or if they just need someone to listen. Having lived through tons of crap in my own life and growing up, I tend not to take life too seriously. Wealth and power don't mean anything to me. I get frustrated easily at anything that is perceived to be meaningless. Existential crisis? Perhaps. But I try my very best to live as meaningfully as possible, although my parents would see it as 'having no direction'.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either chilling out at home, getting a little drunk somewhere, or hanging out with some buddies with a dinner and movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll have to meet me to find out.

No, wait -- that's the automatic answer. I'm too much of an open book to know what the most private thing I'm willing to admit is.
You should message me if
You think I'm cool. You would like to be friends (or more!). I'm open to anything, really. :D