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My self-summary
While I appreciate that this part is important, it always feels so awkward to sum oneself up in a few concise sentences. I can say that I am pretty laid back in general and like to meet new people. I have been accused of bringing home strays amongst my friends- which is a good thing as it has in general added new personalities into the mix that livens it up for everyone. I rarely meet someone I don't like and learn from almost everyone. I think that one can never learn too much and that you get the most out of life by having experiences rather than from owning stuff. I have spent a good deal of my younger years traveling and appreciate the differences that cultural influences bring to any situation.

I'm happily married to the sweetest girl ever, who happens to also agree with me that loving more than one person is natural. We'd love to find someone that is interested in a relationship with us both.

I love costumes and any event that inspires a person to be creative to express their individuality. The Ren Faire is a great place to take children to let them see that even when you grow up you can let your imagination run free. We dress up frequently and go to every event we can that requires costumes. Eccentric Day, Theatre Bizarre and Talk Like a Pirate Day should be national holidays.

I am witty, quirky, and sarcastic
What I’m doing with my life
The past year has been very trying for a variety of reasons. We made it through and I think we have come out stronger and better for the experiences. That being said, I advise you never to burn down your stuff. It is more hassle than you can imagine.

We are both in the veterinary business and spend a lot of time working on our clinics. We provide some unique services and both really enjoy the fact that when an animal comes to see us it is because we are the solution to their problem. It is intensely gratifying to help an animal and their owner in a time of need. Though we work hard, we also find time to play hard and have a large circle of friends that we see as often as we are able. We also have many friends around the world that we don't get to see often, but when we do it is as if no time has passed. That, to me, is the measure of a true friendship.

My most recent adventures have been to get involved with all things fermentation. I have been a brewer for 17 years but have recently been excited to make naturally fermented foods - think sauerkraut, but also any and all other vegetables. The process is fascinating and it is amazing to take something inedible and render it into something extremely nutritious, or to enhance the nutrients of an already healthy food. Just now starting up three vinegar barrels so we can have unpasteurized, healthy vinegar to use in the above pickling, as well as getting into artisanal spirits. Next on the list is cheese making. Trying to become a little more connected with local foods and have been inspired to try the above after joining a CSA (community supported agriculture, if you are unaware of the acronym).

We have an open relationship and have no drama with it. If that offends you then we will probably not get along. We aren't actively looking for someone but are always open to the possibility of meeting someone that fits our life. We hope that we can fit someone else's life as well. We have a great deal of fun when we include others in our life- as friends or more!
I’m really good at
Laughing. I don't take life too serious and look for others that are the same. That being said, it is important to be serious when necessary and get those things done that one has to. But that is only so one can get back to having fun with the people you care about.
The first things people usually notice about me
. . . my long hair. I grew it out in Africa and won't ever go through the mid length hair stage again so it stays until I'm ready for short hair. Which could be a while if my wife has anything to say about it. . .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Geek Love was a recent great, as was The Mystic Art of Erasing All Signs of Death. The Ethical Slut is on the list of need to read. I don't have real favorites as it is mood dependent.

Princess Bride would have to qualify as favorite movie if number of times viewing counts as some sort of voting, though Fear and Loathing would tie or come in second.

I couldn't limit myself to a favorite food as there is almost nothing I don't like.
The six things I could never do without
Beer, coffee, love, animals, Tanzania and people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The way the world has changed. I remember when people seemed to care about one another and not the pursuit of stuff. I used to live in Tanzania and the thing that attracted me to the place was the fact that people were happy despite having little of what most would call "important". The swahili greeting of Habari is always answered, "Mzuri"- fine. If you ever were told, "Siyo mbaya"- not bad, you would panic as that often meant that the house was lost to a fire, the children were dead, all the cows were stolen and you had malaria. Little problems like being late for a movie never ruined anyone's day in Tanzania. Health, family and friends were recognized as the important things to pay attention to and to nourish.
On a typical Friday night I am
Curled up with a book or movie or out to the bar for cocktails and fun with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cover up my shy personality by being outgoing and flamboyent. Insecurities exist in all of us, some just hide it better.
You should message me if
You would like to teach me something new about the world. We are also looking for someone to share more than just a friendship with and have heard that OKC might be a good place to find those that feel the same (we're poly). We'd like to know from others what their experiences are and hopefully meet cool people along the way.