domenique5
29 Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
im not typical
i dont fit in any of the boxes or labels
society has to offer

im a little bit of everything

basically im into humans
meaning everyone

(of course depending on chemistry
and whether we hit it off)

lifes too short&
i intend to
go big
or
go home

live life to the fullest

and leave it all out on the field

and experience as much i can

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heres a list about me

-Polyamorous/ non monogamous
-feminist (does not mean man hating- quite the contrary actually)
-cares about social justice issues
-cares about the earth/environment
-non conformist& unconventional
-Kinkster/Leather/BDSM
-420 friendly (i smoke weed)
-im Gay/ i identify with queer energy
(but understand i dont fit in a box
because im open minded about being intimate/and possibly sexual with cis men and or trans men /potentially.
-female pronouns mostly (but not strictly)
-Very open minded when it comes to relationships with people
-good head on my shoulders
-pleasure&excitement seeker
-sexually adventurous& confident
-comfortable with sex, and talk about sex
-i believe casual sex is healthy, normal to want, and not shameful or dirty

-crave laughing and fun times
-young heart &old soul
- gemini (twins) meaning i have a slice of everything inside and i am a bit of both worlds all the time.
i.e.- ying&yang, light&dark, high&low,
shy but outgoing, intovert and extrovert, dominant and submissive, lover and hater, girl&boi, Man/Woman etc. (im on both sides of every spectrum/both extremes)
-lover of humans& Love between humans
-familiar with emotional pain&baggage
(abuse survivor)
-tortured soul/ deep feeler/doom&gloom
-Free spirit/ wild/ non religious spirituality
-athlete/jock (Waterpolo/football)
-No boxes/no judgement
-emotional /empathic
-sensitive/genuine
-passionate/intense
-happy go lucky/smile a lot
-mature but able to be silly
-self aware
-communicative
-obsessed with my feelings and other peoples feelings
-believer in self care& therapy for all

and
i Was born and raised in Southern California
(orange county--->LA)

i moved to Wa
in 2010
What I’m doing with my life
DAY TO DAY

i work full time at a doggie daycare
i love dogs /all animals
(this pays my rent and bills,
so it makes sense for now)
but dont want to do it forever
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FOR FUN

i go to raves/music festivals
i like to go out and party/ get rowdy/
dance!

love music,
listening to music is a huge part of my life (i like to sing but im super shy about it)

i enjoy altered states
& i love to celebrate/ "turn up" responsibly
&have an amazing time out with people

(drinking)&
(recreational drug use occasionally,
but im not a druggie)

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LIFESTYLE

ive been (closet)kinky my whole life

but have been out and
actively in the BDSM community
since i was 19 yrs old (2007ish)

i go to Leather/Kink/Bdsm
conferences often
&
i am in a Master/slave relationship.

my Master is Female and i see Her
once a month
(we are long distance)
we have been in a relationship since 2009

i am passionate about
kinky sex,
BDSM/Leather,
sex positivity,
body positivity,
&sex education

my Master and i travel all over U.S. and Canada presenting workshops at different Kink conferences.

Mostly, She has many workshops that She has created and teaches and that i assist with

i hope to teach/present my own workshops at some point
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RELATIONSHIPS

i am not monogamous
i am polyamorous

(meaning i have the capacity for
multiple loves &multiple relationships

that being said
im into open communication,honesty, negotiation,& respecting boundaries)
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PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

i am currently immersed in an
intense therapy regimen

im intentionally focusing a lot of my time on this these days

i hope to go into this field someday

and hope to one day help others heal as people in my life have helped me.

i have always been passionate about therapy, self awareness, and
emotional work

i believe that everyone can benefit from the healing therapy can bring

i am passionate about the psyche in general and peoples inner workings

and i believe we all need a little help
and mental/emotional maintenance

that being said im
very attracted and drawn to people who are trying to do
"their own work" as well.

i believe in facing ones own discomfort for the sake of emotional awareness and growth

i continue to try facing my own dark parts
while learning to love myself,
be gentle with myself,
and accept myself more fully

its all a part of my process and journey
I’m really good at
getting along with people

being inclusive

being outrageously open minded
to a fault

not shaming people

and promoting a non shaming
atmosphere

i don't like hating on people
its not my thing
(unless im in traffic and
have my road rage mouth on lol)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
but i love so many things!!
how can i make a fucking list?!

fine i will try.....

books-
harry potter
drama of the gifted child
5 love languages
stone butch blues
mr. benson
the marketplace series
my secret garden
slave craft
a bright red scream

movies, well
i adore movies and shows
so the the list of things i dont like would be shorter!

i also love music and food!! lol
The six things I could never do without
human contact/ people / relationships /companions

meaningful conversation
learning new/interesting things

Love/Sex
Leather sex/kink/bdsm

Music
parties
Dancing
drugs&alcohol

Fun
laughter
good times
epic adventures

yummy food

books, drawing, writing
Movies&shows (netflix binges)

smoking pot

animals

beautiful skies and scenery
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything

Love
Life
Death
reality
perception
my own take on the world
society
humanity
psychology
pain
my dreams
flying
magic/the universe
Sex
sexual orientation& gender
social justice issues
Kink
changing the world
being a leader
and what that looks like to me

my relationships with the people in my life

family
(biological &
chosen)
On a typical Friday night I am
i am usually either

driving up to Vacouver BC after work
to be with my Master

or getting on a plane and flying somewhere with my Master for a Kink conference

or

im taking shots and getting ready to go out!
to a set/show/rave/festival/party

or
staying home and watching
movies and or shows, smoking, eating food with
alone or w friends

or
whatever other random things
You should message me if
you are a

open minded

straight person,
gay person,
bisexual person,
queer person,
questioning person,
curious person

whatever&whichever

ANY GENDER

you are kind, respectful, and real

you are confident
but not in an unkind or mean way

you want casual sex
&
you practice safe sex
and are STD free

*(must be willing to use condoms& practice safe sex with me)

you are sex positive

you are body positive
& all gender positive
(of any bodies)

you are comfortable with
your sexuality

You are kinky or kink friendly

you are trans/ trans safe

you are genderqueer

non binary

(not a requirement but be aware even though i consider myself very much female identified
i am not going to fit into any box and i love all the peoples)

you are ok with me liking
all genders
and sexual orientations

&realize i would/could
have realtionships with/date women
and could potentially have relationships with/date men

cis and non cis

or....

you wanna smoke bowls
or wanna invite me to a fun party

You are not freaked out by everything
ive written so far

you are still interested after getting this far
lol

------one last FYI/disclaimer -----

im not skinny,
i definitely have curves,
&maybe a little extra,
these days anyways

i would like to get "back in shape"
in theory but the truth of the matter is,
i dont practice or workout 3x a days anymore like i did when i was in my prime athlete form

wouldnt say ive cometely let myself go either, and i carry my weight well

just saying
if you are only into skinny,
perfect,
barbie body type girls

thats not me

i do work out 3 times a
week however

not as much as i used to
but (shrug) hey its something
:)

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you are NOT

homophobic
racist
sexist
misogynist
abusive
conservative
straight edge
slut shaming
body shaming
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