54Castro Valley, United States
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My self-summary
As one of the rare true friends in your life, I can take you to new depths in emotion. My skill at knowing the real you combined with my uninhibited style will allow me to reach uncharted areas of your heart.
I own a house in a nice, low crime neighborhood.
My quick wit and intelligence will keep you entertained.
I am HIV negative and am not a playboy.
I go to San Francisco several times a week to dance.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently studying video production and have been enjoying writing screenplays, directing and producing short films with a message about life. I love going to see art films where I can have a dialog with the director as to how they did it. Striving to lead a genuine life, I am searching for the feelings that have the most meaning. We’re so engaged in doing things to achieve purposes of outer value that we forget the inner value, the rapture that is associated with being alive, is what it is all about.
I’m really good at
Dancing; Salsa, Argentine tango, west coast swing, Lindy and ballroom. I take complex concepts and break them down so that I can explain them to an ordinary person.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. They have a smile in them as I try to look deep into my partner to see their inner beauty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
History channel, The Daily Show, Corbert Report, Futurama, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire, KPFA radio, Democracy Now!, Top Gear, Discovery channel, silent classic movies, Academy award nominated movies. My cat likes to watch cartoons and auto racing.
Six things I could never do without
Adventure, to have experiences that stimulate my mind.
Dancing, to do moves that give my partner pleasure.
A true friend, one that I can depend on.
Small animals, it is spiritually fulfilling to be with something wild.
Hobbies, they keep me active and thinking.
Classic and Sports cars. I love restoring and driving them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What we are put on this earth for.
ideal companionship... We love to laugh and play together
·We treat each other with kindness and patience
·We enjoy talking - sharing ideas, hopes, dreams and goals
·We love to dine, travel, play and spend time together because we enjoy each others company
·We have many friends and enjoy their company but we'd always rather be with each other
·We support each other mentally and emotionally
·We build each other's self-esteem
·We satisfy each others emotional and physical needs
·We make unselfish contributions to our relationship by sharing responsibilities and work
·We give a soft shoulder and a listening ear to each other when outside pressures are causing stress
·We are accepting of each other knowing that we each have our own unique strengths and weaknesses - We focus on our mates admirable qualities
·We never retaliate, "get even", or keep records of wrongs
·Although we unwittingly make mistakes we keep our relationship healthy by saying, "I'm Sorry" and/or " I Forgive You" whenever necessary
·We trust and protect each other
·We never take each other for granted
·We laugh a lot together
·We are each others greatest fans and best friends
·We focus on building and strengthening our friendship
·We make each other feel special
·We go out of our way to please each other
·We are accepting and trusting of each other for who we are
·We trust each other enough to be open, transparent and vulnerable
·We feel secure in each others love
·We love to romance each other
·We love to snuggle
·We touch and hold each other a lot; when we're apart we look forward to being back in each others arms
·We have no reservations or inhibitions about expressing our love to each other verbally or physically
·We love to kiss - My lover is a great kisser
·We are great lovers with a passionate love life; We enjoy great satisfying love making - We know each other likes and enjoy giving that pleasure
·We both are passionate about frequent Salsa, Swing and Tango dancing
·We frequent Salsa Congresses and dance camps to grow and nurture our love of movement together
·We leverage the over 5 years of competition Salsa dance training I have completed from international champions by practicing with over a thousand video clips and over 100 DVDs in my library to seek perfection in our moves
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That on Sunday mornings I sometimes listen to the lame TV programs that interview rich white guys who tell me what I should believe in.
You should message me if
You like guys
You are open to a long term relationship
You want to do something exciting together
You are interested in finding meaning in your life together

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