A few thoughts that help define who I am. I am trying to live my life. A task so difficult it has never been attempted before. Incredible as it seems, my life is based on a true story. I don't guarantee anything. Which is lucky for you, since my guarantees are usually worthless. I ONLY COME DOWN SO THAT I CAN GO UP AGAIN.
Who am I looking for? I am looking for the same things most on Match are looking for. A friend, companion, and lover. Someone that I can share my life with. Someone who has my back and knows I have theirs. Someone I can treat special because they are and surprise and delight daily. I have a weakness for short women and for long dark hair, but neither is a prerequisite. Honesty and trust are very important in life and especially in an intimate relationship. I have a philosophy for making a relationship work. We do one thing for you, that you want to do. Then we do one thing for me, that I want to do. Then we do one thing that we both want to do. And the rule is that we never repeat the same one twice until we completed all three. I find it odd that many women here need to state things like "no game playing". I think that is a given. I am honest, real, and sometimes raw. So cliche, but life is too short and getting shorter. I don't want to spend a lot of time trading emails or talking on the phone. If you have read this far and have an interest let me know and let's get together and see if we click. If not, fine. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
We all say it in different ways but we all say we want the same thing. Yet most of us are afraid to reach out and grab the proverbial brass ring. We have different rationals for it but it comes down to fear. Fear of being hurt. Real or imagined. And much of it is imagined. Hell, I don't just want the brass ring. I want the whole damn merry-go round. If you get the chance to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance