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My self-summary
Before we start, a couple of things we need to get out of the way.

1. I am not 40. It's just a convenient midpoint age to search and be searched. All pictures are current.

2. I am planning to leave the country in September for a long period of time, perhaps indefinitely. I will probably be dividing my time between Bali and other places in Asia. So though I'm open to dating while I am still in Los Angeles, that's where my energy is directed, so I might not be a good fit for a serious relationship in Los Angeles at the moment. (I'm open to that in theory - but I am pretty set on leaving the U.S. unless something happens to prevent it)

If those two are not deal-breakers for whatever you are looking for, then by all means let's chat.


I've had an unusual life - I never married, have no children, and am looking forward to new things and changes. Life is adventure to me. My dating range is wide. I get along with a lot of different kinds of people (different ages, backgrounds).

I do not support Donald Trump in any way, shape or form.

When meeting new people, respect is key.

I'm a record producer and musician by trade.

Things that I find fun:
Low-lit Mexican restaurants with good margs
Brilliant conversations
Road trips
Solving mysteries
Lingering in bed with company that makes it worthwhile
Putting people at ease, and hearing their stories
Speaking other languages and hanging out in other cultures

It sometimes take a while to get me, but I have enduring qualities.
What I’m doing with my life
I forged my own path, and I do what I want. I work to improve every day, to live better and to be better. Life is better, however, when it's shared.
I’m really good at
Nearly anything I put my mind to. Though I have to admit, I do knock things over a lot.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm a funny guy! "Funny haha or..." "um..."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Bill Murray, John Cusack, and Buster Keaton. Wait, those are actors.

Actors: Animal House, Dances With Wolves, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Caddyshack, Sullivan's Travels, Caddyshack, Groundhog Day, Caddyshack, The Dead Talk Back, Starfighters. I mean, um, I really love indie films with unpronounceable foreign names. Honest I do.

Shows: Breaking Bad, MST3K, That '70s Show, HIMYM (1st 2 seasons), WKRP In Cincinnati, Better Call Saul (10 episodes wtf) \

Music: '70s soul, '60s garage rock. My specialty as a musician is playing live instruments as opposed to programming, and I'm not a fan of non-organic sound in general.
Six things I could never do without
Chapstick, diverse friends, chapstick, red wine, chapstick. And one other thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm thinking...
On a typical Friday night I am
5:30 - 7 will find me at Diego Gesualdi's meditation class at the Yoga Loft in Woodland Hills. After that I'm up for grabs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I spent a year hanging out mostly with lesbians.
You should message me if
YES - Absolutely message me if you are:
From another culture or country (or have lived in one)
Self-employed or living an unusual life
Religious/spiritual but not politically conservative (agnostics and atheists are welcome too - this is about ethics and character more than belief)
A fun drunk
A great communicator
Shy but curious about the world
The two of us