40 Manila, Philippines
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My self-summary
I am not 40. Guess my real age!

I do not support Donald Trump.

I am staying in the Philippines (in Manila, Bohol and Cebu) for the next month. I am planning to live in Asia starting later in the year.

Though my home is in Los Angeles, California, USA, I am living in Asia for the winter. Interested in meeting new friends, language partners, and maybe something serious if I meet the right person. Even though I am older, I never married or had children (because of my music career) and am still thinking ahead to new life possibilities.

I am in very good physical condition and do yoga and hike every day.

I'm also obviously a (very) amateur linguist...

I try to treat everybody with respect.

I'm a record producer and musician. I've spent a lot of the last three years, between projects, traveling the world (20 countries in that time, plus six cross-country road trips). I hope to settle in some way in the next two years - but what that means exactly I will have to leave up to the universe.

Things that I find fun:
Low-lit Mexican restaurants with good margs
Brilliant conversations
Road trips
Solving mysteries
Lingering in bed with company that makes it worthwhile
Putting people at ease, and hearing their stories
Speaking other languages and hanging out in other cultures

It sometimes take a while to get me, but I have enduring qualities.

All pictures are recent and dated.
What I’m doing with my life
I forged my own path, and I do what I want. I work to improve every day, to live better and to be better. Life is better, however, when it's shared.
I’m really good at
Nearly anything I put my mind to. Though I have to admit, I do knock things over a lot.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm a funny guy! "Funny haha or..." "um..."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Bill Murray, John Cusack, and Buster Keaton. Wait, those are actors.

Actors: Animal House, Dances With Wolves, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Caddyshack, Sullivan's Travels, Caddyshack, Groundhog Day, Caddyshack, The Dead Talk Back, Starfighters. I mean, um, I really love indie films with unpronounceable foreign names. Honest I do.

Shows: Breaking Bad, MST3K, That '70s Show, HIMYM (1st 2 seasons), WKRP In Cincinnati, Better Call Saul (10 episodes wtf) \

Music: '70s soul, '60s garage rock. My specialty as a musician is playing live instruments as opposed to programming, and I'm not a fan of non-organic sound in general.
The six things I could never do without
Chapstick, diverse friends, chapstick, red wine, chapstick. And one other thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm thinking...
On a typical Friday night I am
5:30 - 7 will find me at Diego Gesualdi's meditation class at the Yoga Loft in Woodland Hills. After that I'm up for grabs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I spent a year hanging out mostly with lesbians.
You should message me if
YES - Absolutely message me if you are:
From another culture or country (or have lived in one)
Self-employed or living an unusual life
Religious/spiritual but not politically conservative (agnostics and atheists are welcome too - this is about ethics and character more than belief)
A fun drunk
A great communicator
Shy but curious about the world

NO - Please do not message me if you are:
Here for checklist fulfillment - relationships are about two peoples' needs, not one.
Angry, or mostly motivated by fear.
In poor physical condition (not talking about body shaming or being a fitness Nazi - I prefer curvy to skinny actually - just not taking good care of yourself overall)
Overly material.
A mean drunk
Uptight (I don't mean sexually - I'm fine waiting for someone I like - but just unable to be allow things and people to be what they are)
Quick to offend rather than understand (this is a big deal to me - please - good communication over drama. If there's a problem, let's talk about it)