dotsyjmaher
39Pittsburgh, United States
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My self-summary
I definitely want to find someone that is stable and secure and really knows how to treat someone special. I want to find that person that I can't wait to talk to and I can't wait to come home to, and that feels the same way..that special someone that I can spend the rest of my life with and grow old together. Even on our worst day we will still be happy in love and can work through anything that comes our way.. We will spend countless romantic days and evenings together just enjoying every minute of our time together... I'm romantic at heart and I am looking for someone that is down to earth, but can also be spontaneous, someone that likes to travel, loves kids. If you like to dance that is a plus but not someone that is into the club or bar scene, because I am a true romantic and believe that there is such a thing as a soul mate, but they are not easily found. out of millions of people those 2 souls must meet by chance and circumstance so if you are that special man hit me up
Thanks
What I’m doing with my life
i work hard and play hard
I’m really good at
assessing people, cooking, entertaining myself, art...growing things...making the best of whatever situation in which I find myself
The first things people usually notice about me
my looks! stop asking for more pictures I get hit on in person enough already---I'm VERY HOT but not an AH about it (I was born that way) stop acting like you are the virgin birth-I'm here to see where men's heads are after a lot of years out of the game-If it happens it- it happens- if it doesn't- it doesn't-get over yourself- we are all grown up's here...not all women are desperate!
1/18/12
Help me Jesus, I just got more unsolicited suggestions of pictures that " His Highness" would like to see, thanks to all of the nice guys who don't do stupid things like that! For those of you who are dumb enough to try to start running my life at first approach to me, do you really think that would be attractive to a woman?

If you still want to approach me after reading this -just act like a normal person-be real-just say who you are-the main reason I would think people try online meeting is to cut through the bull that is everywhere these days....

I realize it's hard to read through a lot of profiles but please try to assess your own motives,at least, if you're just looking for a quick hook-up or a date for the weekend ...THAT WOULD NOT BE ME..(I can't believe I had to clarify my statement but someone actually thought that was my interest).I would think that the chicks who want to do that are pretty clear about it....there are some guys actually looking for someone special...I'm at the point where I would say I have looked at and talked to enough guys to move from just seeing where men's heads are to looking for someone special...I also am not at all opposed to penpals(especially international including Americans living abroad)(no green card seeker, though, I've already gotten approached by one of them)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
art books, classic movies, no TV but Three Stooges and Leave it to Beaver,( I have given in to occasionally watching PAN AM ( on computer....I haven't owned a TV in 16 years),the series portrays 20 years earlier than I worked for them but it is fun remembering glamour travel- nothing like today) classical and 60's music ,some Jazz, salmon roe on over easy eggs,Penfold's Bin 389
Ok! since I'm really getting down to the nitty gritty-if you are any kind of TV addict skip me-but if you are into:serial killers(real or fictional),zombies, vampires,or "reality" TV PLEASE SKIP ME...
talk about a waste of life....Oh! and liberals skip me, too -I'm not a Republican- I'm independent but I'm AM too conservative for any kind of lib( however I'm am not like many GOP'S either I live and vote my conscience on each individual issue and situation- not platforms or movements or generalizations )

If you really liked "My Dinner With Andre" and you loved "Cinema Paradiso" please contact me immediately. I'm yours! The movie that probably most influenced me was "On the Beach" (the real one, with Gregory Peck and Ava Gardner.) One of my favorite fictional characters is Holly Martins from"The Third Man."
"On the Beach", "The Third Man", "Laura", and "Cinema Paradiso"are my favorite film scores- all four have stunning music throughout.
Six things I could never do without
faith in Christ, sunny cool air, pets, exercise, NOLA, childhood memories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
GOD and SEX .....and that is the agenda for the rest of my life....you MUST be in love with both to fit into my life
On a typical Friday night I am
online or drawing, writing, reading, or painting
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I miss my Daddy every day and I hate the sound of helicopters and motorcycles, love the sound of airplanes, though
You should message me if
Oh Lord!! I didn't think I have to say this but please ...you MUST be a MAN a real MAN not psuedo or whatever...please no females, I had been visited before but hoped it had been an error...no chicks, please! No Bi's either-I'm sure there are people just dying to know you but I'm not one of them-my closest friend is a gay guy but we don't have any physical designs on one another....not interested in that kind of coupling just hot, real male....thank you!

You are ok with casual friendship unless, if we meet, and "Some Enchanted Evening" starts running through our heads when we look into one another's noses

If you just want to talk about life without any "expectations"...

If you are not "overanxious" as some guys on this site have been, if you're in ICU, and not expected to leave it alive.. Ok- I'll be nice and sympathetic, otherwise let's take it slowly..kay? Only God knows our expiration dates-so why not be optimistic and pretend we have all the time in the world? Silly us! Let's be silly !
Much of life bites -let's have one place we can be silly and not care about anything...

However, if we WERE to find ourselves inexplicably drawn to one another (and I believe that is very rare-and can't be planned or forced) You would have to be willing to be spoiled like the most spoiled baby in the universe and then anxious to reciprocate...

I strongly prefer Born Again Christians simply because I experienced a close brush with major heartbreak over this issue(it was an issue to him not me), I am not hostile to nominal Christians or non-Christians, or even atheists or agnostics but if it's going to be an issue with you-it would be best to skip me, for both our sakes. Also I cannot marry a non Christian, that is Biblical (Oh, I could marry a Messianic Jew and actually that would be very appealing) So if you are one who is looking for a wife you would have to be either a Christian or a Messianic Jew,to be considered for marriage. I do not anticipate that matrimony is any where in the near future, although sometimes absolute magic strikes like a bolt from the blue-that would defininitely be in God's hands not ours...Thanks, Dotsy

I do have to say I am amazed at the amount of hostility that is considered not just socially acceptable but even socially laudable when lobbed at Christians. Christianity seems to be the only group that otherwise kumbiah lovefest wonks deem appropriately hateable. It seems that some self-examination with eyes wide open would be appropriate. It's like the old bumper sticker from the 60's (when police officers were the targets of irrational but socially acceptable hatred)"NEXT TIME YOU ARE IN TROUBLE-DON'T CALL A COP-CALL A HIPPIE" We live in a world of too many mindless followers who need to learn to think more rationally as individuals and not follow like lemmings whatever is current societal BS. Thanks Again, Dotsy

THE FOLLOWING STATEMENT EXPLAINS I LEFT FOR A LONG TIME>>>ANTI CHRISTIAN PSYCHOS GO GET THERAPY....LEAVE ME ALONE

I don't want to hear your shit about Christians ....just go register yourself as a potential hatecrime suspect and leave me the F***k alone...bite me .... you think ALL Christians are "blah, blah, blah"....I don't care...get it? I am not responsible for other people- every person will stand before God ALONE.. I don't critique your lunatic beliefs ....I leave you alone.....please reciprocate (oh do you know what that means? are you literate enough to look it up?

There is no ALL anything..ALL???? are???? no sorry....you are a bigot (look it up)Why would you waste time contacting me??? because all the other women on this site have blocked you...that's an ALL that might be true....
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