27Kāne‘ohe, United States
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My self-summary
I'm pretty friendly, and a bit of a goof. Looking for friends more than anything, and the stray compliment that floats my way as such things are wont to do on this site. The idea of meeting people online with the context of eventual sex creeps me out, but I'm hoping it might get over it or something. Usually I like to think that I'm really chill, though sometimes in a hyper way. I get excited, I'm usually happy, I don't frequently feel bad, and I don't get sad, I get angry. Also I'm a toucher this means I'm cuddly as fuck, but also might punch you. Also I haven't shaved in quite some time. Shaved anything. And don't see taking it up without a fabulous reason.
What I’m doing with my life
That's hard to say. Just got back from traveling and am in the process of reestablishing myself and figuring out what I mean by that.

I want to learn sign language, but word by word by myself is not working. Do you know sign language?
I’m really good at
being open minded, I guess. I generally down to try new things as long as they don't sound like too stupid an idea. I like to think I'm good at problem solving, my engineer side is strongest. I can also draft like a champ! Ok, my line weight isn't the best, but still. Also, I'm pro at climbing trees. Ok, not really, but I like to and I've recently taken up bouldering.

I'm good at being happy, that's important, right?

Ooo, climbing! I like climbing things, trees, rocks, mountains. People. are you tall? i like tall.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair, I think? that may not be true anymore.
Don't know after that really.
Do you know me? write in and let me know!
Seriously, unofficial survey.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Recently I have started the Wheel of Time series and OMG it's eating my life. My love for Neil Gaiman is growing daily as well. I recently have decided that I want to read Deadpool, so if you have it and could lend it to me, that'd be amazing. I have a passion for young adult fantasy because there is less romance and I can read it in a day or two. This mostly includes things by Tamora Pierce, as well as The Adventures of Jacky Faber. Janet Evanovich is my guilty pleasure.
Generally I like things with Dragons or unicorns or pirates and strong women characters. Also Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy is always a good pick me up. I almost start at the part with the mattresses called Zeb. That's my favorite part, especially on a bad day.

Movies: I don't watch many movies, but I like 10 Things I hate about you, Get him to the Greek, Hedwig and the angry inch, Boondock Saints. I like comedy and Stupid Action and Jason Statham.

Music: I'll listen to the good bits of any genre, and yes, I do include country and opera in that. Generally my favorites are metal (-ish). OOMPH!, Nightwish, Apocalyptica, Flogging Molly. But I also like catchy fun things like Tatu, P!NK, and Nightcore. Anything that makes me want to move, and sometimes weird things do that to me.

Food: I like chicken and corn and most things they are involved with. I like cheesy foods, and creamy foods, and saucy foods. I love dim sum. I adore thai. I learning to like fish. Forgot to mention avocados, I love them always and forever. I like veggies and fruit and salads. I'm not vegetarian but I easily could be if someone else were cooking. I just recently learned that I loooove authentic Vietnamese food. Miss it so much.
Six things I could never do without
My teddy bear, don't judge me.
I like to be cozy, you see.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the heck I think I'm doing next. What kind of work/career I want, and where. Usually I think a lot about being a super hero. No, really. I spend a lot of my time day dreaming, and mostly it's about me being super awesome, or my life being super awesome, and what it would be like if I could fly. Please do not ask me what super power I would have If I had one. It's to fly, I just said it, I get that question too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
More and more I seem to go out on fridays. House parties or a bar, I'm not really a club person. Left to my own devices I will stay home and read.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The way to my heart is feeding me tasty food.
You should message me if
You want to fix my car. It's Hella broke. if you're an archeologist. because those sound like adventures I wanna go on lately, especially if you do sunken ships and stuff. yup.

I am very introspective, when i have emotions I like to pull them apart, look at them, figure out the real root of the problem, and then talk about it. I need you to be willing and able to do the same.

I don't drink coffee/tea/beer, and while I appreciate the idea, please do not ask me out for a cup of coffee/tea/beer, I'll get awkward and say no.

but most of all, have something worth saying.
"what's up?" is not a valid message.
actual examples of what i hate:
"hey whats good cutie whats good besides how u look lol im just sayin"
"sup sup, did i catch your attention, sup"
"So you're an art student, do you want to paint me naked?"
"did you come up with all of those sample first messages, or did people actually send them to you?"
The two of us