The basics about me: I'm bisexual, polyamorous, kinky & pagan.
About the poly part: I am polyamorous. That means I have multiple romantic and sexual relationships, and everyone involved knows what's going on and is okay with it. My being poly is NOT negotiable....it's a hard-wired part of who I am. The pagan part: I'm still exploring and probably will be until the day I die. There are many pagan traditions that I find interesting and as a result, I'm not able to focus on just one. The current exploration is taking me along the Asatru path.
The main thing that's a big part of my life: my teenage daughter. Anyone who wants any of my time, will understand that she come first...period. Aside from that, I'm always wanting to meet new people, learn new things, go new places. I am very much the typical Gemini in that regard. I've never been able to pick just one of anything.
That's all for now...if you want to know more, send me a message and ask.
I am artistic, organized, and empathic
If I take the time to message you on this site, please at least do me the courtesy of replying...even if it's to say 'no thank you'. Despite my extroverted appearance in public, I can be a bit shy about contacting people online and not responding, to me, is just rude.
You can handle sharing my time with my daughter who will ALWAYS come first in my life.
I have to admit to a certain amount of frustration at people not saying what they're looking for physical attractiveness-wise in people here. I've seen a lot of 'here's what I don't want'.
So here's what I want (if you fit this at all...then sure..message me): In general, age doesn't matter...the personality matters. I will say that in my experience, people who are significantly younger or older than me (and by significantly...I mean 10 or more years difference) are usually not a good match. I'm not picky about gender/gender identification...whatever you define yourself as...that's cool with me (although, frustratingly, I seem to end up with men more often than not. That's not to say I don't like men...I'd just like some interactions with women as well). When it comes to body type (this is the big one that no one ever seems to specify...and people *do* have a 'type' even if they don't want to admit it), again..I'm not that picky. It varies wildly who I will be attracted to. My attractions have ranged from really skinny to very large. I'm not picky about racial make-up but I seem to end up with white partners more often than not. Sadly, amongst the subcultures I circulate in, there doesn't seem to be a large racial variety...this is probably why I haven't dated much outside my own racial background.
I'll admit that I'm not fond of baldness but that's not an automatic dis-qualifier, just a preference. I also have a preference for long hair.
The only 'I do NOT want' that I will include here is this: Do NOT message me if you are only looking for a sub, dom, random/cheap sex, or anything else fleeting. I'm looking for long-term connections....be that friend, lover, or partner.
Also....if you want me to message you back, please make sure your mailbox isn't full. Apparently there is a limit to how many messages you can save here. I can't respond if the box is full.