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My self-summary
I love my work and all things about business. Especially the numbers and deal making. Regular travel to my Shanghai office helps to keep my inner gypsy happy. Splitting my time between China and the USA keeps me from getting too bored and locked into routines. I love a great conversation but can't stand predictable talks about nothing. Listening to and playing music are the soundtrack to my life and I need background music. Life has been good to me and I am always interested in the new people and adventures that are to come. Growing up with a sister and being around her friends started me off learning how to talk to women and many of my best friends are women. I am very romantic and though I enjoy sex I am more interested in the 98% of time we would spend outside of the bedroom.
What I’m doing with my life
It is hard not to sound cliche here. I do try to get the most out of life. I have goals I set and pursue in business, travel, fitness, self-development... And though I am goal oriented I like to balance that with a free spirit and experiences that are unplanned and unscripted. I have met some of the best people and had the most memorable times in these spontaneous moments.
I’m really good at
I am a good listener and understanding people. This has helped me in business and I am often a friend that people turn to for advice. I don't really like to give advice, but rather help people to follow their heart and soul. I hate to be told what to do with my life so I don't tell others what to do. I am a good guitar player and this is a good stress relief for me and fun for entertaining friends. I have always been a fan of martial arts and weightlifting so I try to enjoy these activities as much as I can. Of course I am very good at my work and have built a successful business over 20 years.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look young for my age. I thank my Chinese mother for this. My smile- I never realized I smile a lot, but I guess I do. I am big, in clubs I am often mistaken for the bouncer. My wit-it is a subtle sarcastic sense of humor. Passion- in love and life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Classic American literature, scifi, Crime shows, 80's hair metal, techno dance music, Mozart, movies with lots of action, business week and fortune magazines, UFC, Bruce Lee Movies

Band - The Beatles
Guitarist - Jimi Hendrix
Wine - Australian or Chilean Cab
Movies - The Godfather, The Fight Club, Enter the Dragon, Out of Africa, Silence of the Lambs, Rocky...
Modern Singer-Bruno Mars
Rapper- Jay Z
Author- Mark Twain
American- Thomas Jefferson
Tea-Long Jing (dragon well).
Quote- Life is what happens to you when you are making other plans - John Lennon
Designer - God. I am not super religious by any means, but there has got to be a master designer to all the amazingly beautiful and complex things in the world.
Guitar - Stratocaster
Amp- Any Marshall tube
Shanghai Restaurant - Dolar Shop has the best hot pot!
American Food - Pizza
Gadget- Slingbox 500
Six things I could never do without
A good guitar
Awesome stereo
Spicey food!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I just spend a lot if time thinking in general. Ask me and I will tell you what my latest obsession is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Never typical. Could be pumping iron in my home gym, out for a nice meal with a good friend, enjoying family, on a wild adventure during my travels, watching Netflix, enjoying some down time, snuggling up with someone special.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I enjoy chick flicks. But usually only if enjoying with a chick :)
You should message me if
I love to meet new people, just be real and not dishonest in your intentions. I am quick to spot frauds and fakes. I am not looking for a booty call and I don't want to talk about marriage when we have never met in person. I have met many amazing women in the real world and since I am a technology freak I am now open to meeting in the digital world. Having said that, face to face is the only way to my heart and friendship or romance.
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