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My self-summary
I'm a polyamorous 31 year old with geeky hobbies! I grew up in Michigan but moved south at 18. I love good conversation, games, movies, writing, reading, a good party with close friends, and creativity. I'm usually the tallest person at any function I attend.
What I’m doing with my life
I am self employed and pursuing my dream job now. I've just gotten started and I'm basically a fish out of water since I've never done this before.

(My dream has always been to create/publish board games, card games, and traditional roleplaying games).
I’m really good at
I'm pretty good at gaming. I'm pretty funny on occasion but like the weather, I never rely on it. I like to think there are a lot of other things but I know that it's more of having a passion than having an expertise. I think most importantly, I try to never "feel" good at something to the degree where I stop treating it like a full learning experience. That's how we improve as people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall and a big guy at 6'7". I'm both nerdy and socially capable. I'm often wearing a suit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Brick, Shawshank Redemption, LA Confidential, Big Trouble in Little China, Fellowship of the Ring, Chinatown, Heat, Iron Man, Rifftrax/MST3k, Raiders of the Lost Ark, The Empire Strikes Back, Lawrence of Arabia, Patton, Captain America: The Winter Soldier, Picnic at Hanging Rock, Белое солнце пустыни (White Sun of the Desert)

Books: The Great Gatsby, Wizard of Earthsea, To Kill A Mockingbird, Robinson Crusoe, Jhereg, A Song of Fire & Ice, The Shadow of the Wind, Into the Storm, The Forever War

TV: Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, NHL Hockey, Magnum PI, Space Ghost Coast to Coast, Game of Thrones, Carnivale, True Detective, The West Wing, Columbo, Penny Dreadful, In Search Of, Archer, Stranger Things

Video Games: Dungeons of Dredmor, Ogre Battle, League of Legends, CounterStrike: Global Offensive, Team Fortress Classic, Team Fortress 2, Overwatch, Final Fantasy 6, Final Fantasy Tactics, Lunar: Silver Star Story Complete, Escape Velocity: Nova, Knights of the Old Republic, Left 4 Dead, Masters of Orion 2, Minecraft, Shining Force 1 & 2, Metal Gear Solid 1 & 3, Risk of Rain, FTL: Faster Than Light, Gunstar Heroes, Day of Defeat, Ragnarok Online, Mechwarrior Online, Azure Dreams, Diablo, Company of Heroes, Super Mario Bros 3, Panzer Dragoon 2, Shining the Holy Ark, Dragon Force, Marvel vs. Capcom 2, Capcom vs. SNK 2, Castlevania: Symphony of the Night, The Last Blade 2, Metal Slug 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, & X, Front Mission 3, Stellaris, Chopper Commando, Sonic the Hedgehog CD, Battle for Wesnoth, Warsong, Chrono Trigger, Suikoden 1 & 2, Super Smash Bros & Melee, Super Mario 64, The Legend of Zelda A Link to the Past, Super Mario Kart, Secret of Mana, Legend of Mana, Super Castlevania IV, Contra, Borderlands 2, Final Fantasy XI, SimCity 3000, FireWatch, Mass Effect 1, 2, 3, Freelancer, Wolfenstein Enemy Territory, Starseige Tribes, Mechcommander, Half-life & Half-life 2

Music: Indie Rock/Alt Rock, Old Punk, Electronica/Techno, Electro Swing, Jazz Fusion, many other things (Decemberists, Dynatron, Noir Deco, Stellardrone, Celldweller, RJD2, Ratatat, Combichrist, Lazerhawk, Kaskade, Mega Drive, M83, Faunts, Glitch Mob, Iron & Wine, Tom Petty, Johnny Cash, Daft Punk, Pendulum, Assemblage 23, The Clash, Dead Kennedy's, White Lies, The Minibosses, Maximo Park, Bat for Lashes, Droid Bishop, The Appleseed Cast, Abney Park, Tom Waits, Florence & the Machine, The X.x, The Airborne Toxic Event, Muse, The Sword, Jean Luc Ponty, Ed Alleyne Johnson, Madeon, Daft Punk, Vangelis, Parov Stelar so much more)

Food: Pastas, Pizza, TexMex, Chinese, Thai, Some Indian, Brazillian Barbecue and very little southern cooking

Boardgames: I play a lot of things. Some of the standouts that are more permanent include Magic: the Gathering, Infinity, X-Wing Miniatures, Lord of the Rings TCG, and a variety of other things. This is my current collection, updated regularly: http://boardgamegeek.com/collection/user/Darius099

Sports: I really only care about hockey for traditional sports. I primarily follow the Detroit Red Wings and Tampa Bay Lightning but I am a fan of the sport in general. I also root for the Grand Rapids Griffins in the AHL (Detroit's farm team). I do follow some e-sports (CS:GO and League of Legends, mostly League of Legends), and I have followed paintball in the past when I played. In League of Legends I'm a big fan of TSM & Echo Fox, and in CS:GO I'm a big fan of Fnatic & NiP.
The six things I could never do without
The internet & a computer, board and tabletop games, good friends, air conditioning, stormy weather, and sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future. Games, friends, and sex. I like to discuss nerd culture, film, books, alternate history, and a thousand other things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably out with a few friends doing something fun, something geeky, or at a party occasionally. Maybe playing a board game or just shouting at a bad movie with them. Occasionally if there's nothing going on I'm playing a video game or writing or watching a movie.

I love to host small parties for friends, board game nights, tabletop games, and go out to movies or eat somewhere new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You can ask me any question about anything from life to religious views to my life history to sex and I will answer it happily. I try not to do things that I'd be regretful or ashamed of, I won't say I succeed completely because nobody is perfect, but it's a priority. Having nothing I'm unwilling to discuss with others has become a priority as well. I don't offend easily (I only say easily because people accept it easier than "at all") and I don't mind being forward on subjects.

I'm quite into a variety of kinks.
You should message me if
If you had any inclination you should, even the faintest, go right ahead, I'm happy to talk.


* I will probably not message you first.
* I am polyamorous - SEE: redmara
* I am a secular humanist.
* I am kinky.
* I'm a big bastard. I photograph well and I have that goddamned gorgeous jawline so I look smaller/its easy to forgive.
* I am not tolerant of sexism, racism, or bigotry of any type.
* I'm pansexual, usually attracted to femininity in looks.